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EPISODE · Jun 9, 2025 · 22 MIN

The lost art of having fun - and how to get it back

from XO Conversations · host XO Living

Somewhere between deadlines, caregiving, and doing all the things… fun got lost. Not just the big, event-style fun — but the kind that makes you forget what time it is, that makes you laugh or relax without needing a reason, that reminds you who you are under all the responsibility.In this episode, I explore the real reasons fun feels so out of reach for so many women — and why adding more of it back into our lives is less about being silly, and more about reconnecting with presence, lightness, and joy.You’ll hear from women who tried a weeklong “fun experiment,” what worked (and what didn’t), and what we discovered about joy that surprised us all.Plus, I’ll walk you through a simple thought process for bringing more lightness into your day — no vacation required.🎧 What we cover:Why fun feels harder the more “grown up” you getThe hidden cost of only being productiveHow to find joy again in small, unplanned momentsThe 5 types of daily fun (yes, even for the serious ones)What “fun” actually means when you’re juggling everythingWhether you’re craving more laughter, more lightness, or just a way to feel like you again — this one’s for you.🖐🏻 Want my free list of 50+ ways to add fun back into your life? Find it here: livingxo.com/havefunAnd if you’re feeling stuck between who you used to be and who you want to become, I offer free coaching calls. Reach out at [email protected]  Engage & Connect:Want more insights, tips, and personal stories? Subscribe to our newsletter for exclusive content and updates on upcoming episodes.Gifts for Listeners:Take your first step towards an extraordinary life with our FREE resources. Check out our free quiz at livingxo.com/quiz and plot your current decision-making process. Discover actionable steps to move closer to your goals.Grab my FREE gratitude challenge: livingxo.com/gratitudeDownload my FREE handout 5 Must-Ask Questions before making a decision livingxo.com/questionsFREE workbook to help you figure out what you really want (not what you think you should want): livingxo.com/mygoals p.s. If you found value in this episode, please share and leave a 5 star rating and review on your preferred podcast platform!

When was the last time you felt real, unscheduled, laugh-out-loud joy? In this episode, we explore why fun feels harder as adults—and how to find it again in small, meaningful ways. If you’ve ever said “I’m too serious" or "I'm too busy for fun,” this is for you.

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