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EPISODE · Jun 2, 2026 · 10 MIN

The Messy Middle Nobody Talks About

from Ditch The Debate · host Taniel

Have you ever felt like you're no longer who you used to be, but you're not yet the person you're trying to become? Welcome to the messy middle. In this episode, Taniel explores the uncomfortable in-between space that often comes with personal growth, healing, career changes, motherhood, and life transitions. She unpacks why curve balls at work and at home can derail even our best intentions, why recovery often takes longer than expected, and how self-criticism keeps us stuck far longer than the original problem ever does. If you've been feeling exhausted, disconnected, or frustrated with yourself lately, this episode is a reminder that you're not failing - you might simply be in the middle of becoming.   In This Episode We Discuss: What the "messy middle" actually is Why growth rarely feels as good as it looks online How workplace stress and family challenges can derail us The hidden reason recovery takes so long Why self-compassion is more practical than self-criticism Simple ways to regulate your nervous system when life throws a curve ball How to keep moving forward when everything feels uncertain Key Takeaway You are not lost. You are in between. The messy middle is not a detour from your growth.. - it is your growth.   Connect with Taniel ➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/the-messy-middle ➡️ Website: https://tanielstrydom.com ➡️ Follow me: https://instagram.com/tanielstrydom

Have you ever felt like you're no longer who you used to be, but you're not yet the person you're trying to become? Welcome to the messy middle. In this episode, Taniel explores the uncomfortable in-between space that often comes with personal growth, healing, career changes, motherhood, and life transitions. She unpacks why curve balls at work and at home can derail even our best intentions, why recovery often takes longer than expected, and how self-criticism keeps us stuck far longer than the original problem ever does. If you've been feeling exhausted, disconnected, or frustrated with yourself lately, this episode is a reminder that you're not failing - you might simply be in the middle of becoming.   In This Episode We Discuss: What the "messy middle" actually is Why growth rarely feels as good as it looks online How workplace stress and family challenges can derail us The hidden reason recovery takes so long Why self-compassion is more practical than self-criticism Simple ways to regulate your nervous system when life throws a curve ball How to keep moving forward when everything feels uncertain Key Takeaway You are not lost. You are in between. The messy middle is not a detour from your growth.. - it is your growth.   Connect with Taniel ➡️ Episode page: https://tanielstrydom.com/the-messy-middle ➡️ Website: https://tanielstrydom.com ➡️ Follow me: https://instagram.com/tanielstrydom

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