The Modern Dating Playbook: Red Flags, Ghosting & Finding the One with Lindsey Metselaar

Episode 12 of the Coffee & A Good Vibe podcast, hosted by Ayesha Sehra, titled "The Modern Dating Playbook: Red Flags, Ghosting & Finding the One with Lindsey Metselaar" was published on July 9, 2025 and runs 47 minutes.

July 9, 2025 ·47m · Coffee & A Good Vibe

Summary

Lindsey Metselaar (@lindzmetz) is a native New Yorker, dating coach, and host of We Met At Acme (@wemetatacme) podcast, which has amassed over 15 million downloads since its creation in 2017. Since creating We Met At Acme, Lindsey has expanded to touring over the country and also continues to host mixers and events around NYC.IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN:How Lindsey Metselaar built a podcasting empire with "We Met At Acme."How to be an early innovator in the podcast space and evolve a brand Strategies for building an engaged community and massive audience Lindsey's insights into modern dating Finding your dream partner and the importance of inner work.Advice on relationships and maintaining a strong foundation Advice on relationships once you have a children and  How to set boundaries in the public eye and navigate social media.Lindsey's hot takes on dating apps, dating myths, social media & building the life of your dreams. EPISODE SUMMARY:0:01:56 Building a Podcasting Empire: Lindsey's journey as an early innovator and the growth of "We Met At Acme."0:05:19 The Art of Hosting: Learn how Lindsey creates a comfortable environment for guests to open up.0:08:21 Monetizing Your Passion: Insights into turning a side project into a successful full-time business.0:15:23 Fostering Community Engagement: Lindsey's strategies for building and maintaining an active fanbase.0:20:01 Attracting Your Dream Partner: The crucial role of inner work and self-improvement in dating.0:26:21 Optimizing Your Dating App Profile: Practical tips and non-negotiables for singles.0:30:56 Sustaining Relationships: The continuous effort and communication needed for lasting love.0:35:26 Balancing Life's Demands: Lindsey's philosophy on managing career, motherhood, and partnerships.0:38:14 Setting Boundaries in the Public Eye: Protecting your personal life while building a brand.0:44:40 Modern Dating Wisdom: Rapid-fire takes on various dating strategies and scenarios.Share the love & let me know your thoughts over on Instagram,⁠ @coffeeandagoodvibe  | @ayeshasehra⁠EPISODES MENTIONS: Follow Lindsey on | ⁠ Instagram | Tiktok |  LinkedInFollow We Met At Acme on | ⁠Instagram | YoutubeListen We Met At Acme Podcast on | Apple | Spotify |  iHeart WATCH THE FULL VIDEO INTERVIEWS ON YOUTUBE ➟ Watch & subscribe to our channel here ➟ ⁠Coffee & A Good Vibe Video Interviews ⁠To connect with Ayesha Sehra ➟ click⁠ HERE⁠Check out our podcast Insta ➟ click ⁠HERE⁠ To learn about my PR Agency Grow The Social ➟ click ⁠HERE ⁠ 

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