The More They Reject You, The Harder You Try | Why We Chase Love That Hurts | Ep. 002

Send Lisa a question for her to reply in a future episode!When love feels like a battle you're desperate to win, something deeper is happening. In this vulnerable episode, I share my personal story of staying in a 5-year relationship with a professional football player who was cheating with multiple women—while I remained in denial, searching for "proof" I already had.I dive into why we chase people who reject us, why we work overtime to convince someone to love us, and the childhood wounds that program us to equate love with struggle.I'm talking about:The psychological trap that keeps us fighting for relationships that hurt usHow denial becomes a survival mechanismMy own journey through infidelity and the wake-up call I couldn't ignoreThe connection between childhood experiences and our adult relationship patternsHow to recognize when you're chasing love that will never fulfill youIf you've ever found yourself trying harder the more someone pulls away, this episode will help you understand why—and how to break free.Support the showThis is the podcast they don't want you listening to.👉 Find me at lisasonni.com Book A Session with LisaJoin my online survivor community called She Rises Collective where we are breaking free, rebuilding and dismantling patriarchy. Follow on IGWatch on YouTubeGet My Books HereNew episodes drop every Tuesday.Subscribe, share it with someone who needs the truth - and remember:You’re stronger than they ever wanted you to believe.