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EPISODE · Sep 4, 2025 · 36 MIN

The Number One Way to Change Your Life (It Starts with a Choice)

from The Confidence Chronicles

The process of becoming is all about choices.  When women say, “Damn, Erika, how did you get that career/house/husband?!” Here's what I say, “I had to choose this for myself”.  And they were hard choices. I have had my share of trauma in my life. Abuse, loss, grief. It would have been so much easier to numb out every night on social media, or stay in a job I hated. To stay miserable in general.  Here's the truth,  we all have trauma and we all have choices to make.   So today I want to share with you how I decided to start being present in my choices, how those choices got me to where I am today, and how you can do the same.  P.S. Queen The Sistahood (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/) is open for enrolments! WHERE TO CONNECT WITH ERIKA: • Come say hello on Instagram!  @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) • Find me on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/Theconfidencequeen) • Want to watch some behind the scenes & vlogs? Subscribe on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzgN7oWfbMJVj41xfJLA5Yg) • Grab a signed copy of Erika’s new book Confidence Feels Like Shit (audiobook available) here (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/confidence-like-sht-book/) • Want to check out The Queen of Confidence Shop Click here (https://the-queen-of-confidence.myshopify.com) ! • Check out the Website here (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/) FREE RESOURCES: • Join Erikas list (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/opt-in-2) - get exclusive masterclasses and personal notes from her via email weekly • Are you ready to CHANGE your life?  Watch the FREE training here! (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/what-it-really-takes-on-demand) • The 7 Steps to coaching yourself - Self Coaching Cheat sheet -download for FREE here (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/coachyourself)   WORK WITH ERIKA: • Join us in the Sistahood (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/) - 12 months of live coaching with Erika  👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast! (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcasts/) 👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show (https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022) 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. 👑 *READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND?* ♟️ *The Queen's Table* My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ 👑 *MORE WAYS TO WORK WITH ME* ✨ *The Next Level* Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 📖 *My Book – Becoming The One* → https://www.amazon.com/ 🎙 *Listen to the Podcast* → https://podcasts.apple.com/ 📱 *Come Say Hi on Instagram* → https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/ ⭐ *If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear it.*

The process of becoming is all about choices.  When women say, “Damn, Erika, how did you get that career/house/husband?!” Here's what I say, “I had to choose this for myself”.  And they were hard choices. I have had my share of trauma in my life. Abuse, loss, grief. It would have been so much easier to numb out every night on social media, or stay in a job I hated. To stay miserable in general.  Here's the truth,  we all have trauma and we all have choices to make.   So today I want to share with you how I decided to start being present in my choices, how those choices got me to where I am today, and how you can do the same.  P.S. Queen The Sistahood (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/) is open for enrolments! WHERE TO CONNECT WITH ERIKA: • Come say hello on Instagram!  @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) • Find me on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/Theconfidencequeen) • Want to watch some behind the scenes & vlogs? Subscribe on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzgN7oWfbMJVj41xfJLA5Yg) • Grab a signed copy of Erika’s new book Confidence Feels Like Shit (audiobook available) here (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/confidence-like-sht-book/) • Want to check out The Queen of Confidence Shop Click here (https://the-queen-of-confidence.myshopify.com) ! • Check out the Website here (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/) FREE RESOURCES: • Join Erikas list (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/opt-in-2) - get exclusive masterclasses and personal notes from her via email weekly • Are you ready to CHANGE your life?  Watch the FREE training here! (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/what-it-really-takes-on-demand) • The 7 Steps to coaching yourself - Self Coaching Cheat sheet -download for FREE here (https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/coachyourself)   WORK WITH ERIKA: • Join us in the Sistahood (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/sistahood/) - 12 months of live coaching with Erika  👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast! (https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcasts/) 👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show (https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022) 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence (https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/) Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. 👑 *READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND?* ♟️ *The Queen's Table* My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ 👑 *MORE WAYS TO WORK WITH ME* ✨ *The Next Level* Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 📖 *My Book – Becoming The One* → https://www.amazon.com/ 🎙 *Listen to the Podcast* → https://podcasts.apple.com/ 📱 *Come Say Hi on Instagram* → https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/ ⭐ *If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear it.*

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