The Original Swingers: Sam L. Feldman on Hookups, Hiccups & Freedom

from Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris · host Adam & Pris

SUMMARY Ever wonder what the original sexual revolution really looked like? Before there were swinger apps, lifestyle websites, or even the term "ethical non-monogamy," there were people just living it — raw, real, and unapologetic. In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Sam L. Feldman — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances — to talk about what life and love looked like in the 60s and 70s when freedom was brand new, communication was everything, and consent was just starting to evolve. From key clubs and the dawn of "no-fault" divorce to the lessons that still apply to modern swingers, Sam's stories remind us how much the world has changed — and how much it really hasn't. We talk about jealousy, connection, freedom, communication, and how couples can keep their spark alive even decades later. This one's a fun, flirty, and eye-opening history lesson for anyone exploring non-monogamy today. Sam's humor and honesty prove that freedom without communication is just chaos wearing a smile. SHOW NOTES Guest: Sam L. Feldman — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances Topics covered: The sexual revolution and how "key clubs" started it all How couples handled jealousy and boundaries before "rules" existed What freedom meant for women in the 60s and 70s — and what's at stake today Why communication and consent still make or break connection How to keep date nights, desire, and humor alive — even after 60+ years of marriage Favorite quote from Sam: "Freedom without communication is just chaos wearing a smile." 🎧 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts! And don't forget to like, subscribe, share, and leave a review — it helps us grow and keep bringing real conversations like this your way. 📣 JOIN THE BEYOND MONOGAMY COMMUNITY 💻 Visit our website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 🎙️ Stream us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST 📬 Share your stories (anonymous or not) in the Beyond Monogamy Confessional 🎟️ Check out our Events Page for live shows, meet-and-greets, and travel plans — 2026 dates are already stacking up! 📚 Grab Sam's book: Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances 👉 Help keep the conversations going — rate, review, and share the show with your lifestyle friends, club buddies, and open-minded circles. Every review helps more curious couples find us! Follow us on social media for all things Beyond Monogamy: Facebook: @BeyondMonogamy4u Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond X/Twitter: @beyomono YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — Real talk, real couples, real connection.

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