The Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic: Doing Too Much and Feeling Like You're Not Enough

This is about the Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic, where one partner consistently carries the majority of the load, while the other partner fails to show up in a way that truly progresses and deepens the relationship.We’re not blaming the person “doing less” or sympathizing with the person “doing more” — I’m pulling the veil back so you can see the inner workings of what’s happening in this dynamic and I’m giving solutions for what to do about it.Mentioned videos —8 models for Self & Relational Development: https://youtu.be/tLHS3kaacgoSER Model: https://youtu.be/mOwCXoETFxc👩🏾‍🏫 Conflict in Couples Workshop: https://taylorchandler.as.me/schedule/7f693168/?appointmentTypeIds[]=88471947👉 Interest form to work with me: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L💻 Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/⏰ Timestamps:00:00:38 What are Relationship Dynamics?0:02:37 The Capacity Problem00:04:28 Three domains of capacity00:11:24 Solutions for the O-U Dynamic🔔 CONNECT AND WORK WITH TAYLOR:🖥  Explore My Practice-- https://taylorchandlerwalker.com/💬 Work With Me -- Request a consultation👁️ Weekly Relationship Insights: -- Subscribe to Substack📱Follow on Instagram -- @iamtaylorchandlerDisclaimer: The content provided in this video is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional mental health care or therapy.#Relationships #RelationshipAdvice #TaylorChandler #LMFT #Relationship Dynamics #CouplesTherapy #MarriageAdvice