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Jul 18, 2025 6 min

The Pain We Don’t Talk About: When Basic Needs Feel Unreachable

from Heal The Hurt Hosted by Kenny Weiss

She couldn’t change a roll of toilet paper.I starved myself for years—on purpose.Not because we were lazy. Not because we didn’t know better.Because we didn’t feel worthy of meeting our own needs.That’s what codependency does.It disconnects us from the most fundamental truth:You deserve to take care of yourself.In this powerful video, I share heartbreaking real stories—from my clients and my own life—that reveal how trauma teaches us to abandon our needs for love, validation, or safety.You'll also learn the exact steps to start healing:✔️ How to identify your unmet needs and wants✔️ A guilt-free framework to start putting yourself first✔️ Why shame, guilt, and feeling “selfish” actually mean you’re doing it rightThis video isn’t just for you—it’s for anyone who grew up never being taught how to love themselves.Watch this if you’ve ever felt guilty for resting, eating, or dreaming.🎥 Hit play. Heal deeply. And finally meet the one person you’ve always ignored—yourself.🕺🏼SCHEDULE A SESSION:https://calendly.com/kennyweiss/single-session-350📚 Purchase MY NEW BOOK: Your Journey To Being Yourself; https://amzn.to/3U1IGNZ📚 MY FIRST BOOK:'Your Journey To Success': https://amzn.to/3nfVphr🌍 My Website: https://www.kennyweiss.net🎓ONLINE MASTERCLASSES: https://thegreatnessu.com/courses🕺CONNECT WITH ME:Heal The Hurt Weekly Podcast 🎙https://spoti.fi/46FSmAjInstagram 📸 @kennyweiss.kwFacebook 👥 https://www.facebook.com/kennyweiss.netNewsletter 💌 https://geni.us/kennyweissnewsletter #CodependencyRecovery #EmotionalHealing #InnerChildHealing #SelfWorthJourney #SelfAbandonment #EmotionalAbuseRecovery #TraumaHealing #HealingFromNarcissisticParents #MentalHealthAwareness #KennyWeiss #SelfCareIsNotSelfish #BreakTheCycle #healing #PeoplePleaserRecovery #CPTSDRecovery #EmotionalMastery #HealingJourney #LearnToLoveYourself

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