The Positive Divorce Movement and Better Apart Method with Gabrielle Hartley | Episode 35

Navigating Divorce with Gabrielle Hartley: Mediation, Mindfulness, and the Better Apart MethodIn this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Gabrielle Hartley, a family lawyer, mediator, and author of Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate. Gabrielle shares her journey from being a sports agent to a family lawyer and how her personal experiences with divorce shaped her unique approach to helping clients navigate the emotional and legal complexities of separation.Guest Information Gabrielle Hartley is a seasoned family lawyer, mediator, and author of Better Apart. With over 25 years of experience, Gabrielle specializes in helping individuals and families navigate divorce with mindfulness, promoting positive resolutions that prioritize both emotional well-being and practical outcomes. She is also the creator of the Better Apart method, a holistic approach to mindful divorce.Episode OutlineIntroduction: Gabrielle Hartley’s Journey Gabrielle discusses her background, transitioning from a sports agent to a family lawyer. She reflects on how her personal experiences with her parents' divorce led her to focus on helping others navigate the challenges of separation in a more compassionate way.The Impact of Divorce on Families Gabrielle emphasizes that it’s not divorce itself that causes harm, but the conflict. She shares tips on reducing the emotional toll on children by focusing on minimizing conflict and managing the process mindfully.When to Litigate vs. Mediate Gabrielle explains when a case is appropriate for litigation versus mediation. While most cases are suited for mediation, she stresses the importance of being fully prepared with the right financial disclosures and a clear understanding of potential outcomes before committing to mediation.The Positive Divorce Movement Gabrielle introduces the Positive Divorce Movement, which encourages a reframing of divorce from failure to an opportunity for growth. She advocates for divorces that support children and create positive outcomes for the whole family.Mediation and Discovery Gabrielle emphasizes the importance of transparency and thorough discovery in mediation. She advises clients to have full financial disclosures to ensure fair and equitable settlements.What is Divorce at Altitude? Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha provide tips and recommendations on issues related to divorce, separation, and co-parenting in Colorado. Ryan and Amy are the founding partners of an innovative and ambitious law firm, Kalamaya | Goscha, that pushes the boundaries to discover new frontiers in family law, personal injuries, and criminal defense in Colorado. To subscribe to Divorce at Altitude, click here and select your favorite podcast player. To subscribe to Kalamaya | Goscha's YouTube channel where many of the episodes will be posted as videos, click here.  If you have additional questions or would like to speak to one of our attorneys, give us a call at 970-429-5784 or email us at [email protected].************************************************************************DISCLAIMER: THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS ON THIS PODCAST IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND INFORMATIONAL PURPOSES AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL ADVICE. CONTACT AN ATTORNEY IN YOUR STATE OR AREA TO OBTAIN LEGAL ADVICE ON ANY OF THESE ISSUES.