The power of the Relaxation Response: A New Year's Resolution to relax into

As we embark on a new year, many of us are seeking ways to improve our wellbeing and reduce stress in our lives. One powerful tool that has stood the test of time is the Relaxation Response, a concept developed by Dr Herbert Benson, a Harvard cardiologist and pioneer in mind-body medicine.The Relaxation Response is a physical state of deep rest that counteracts the Stress Response that may well feel more familiar in our bodies in these go go go 24/7 times we live in. The Relaxation Response is a natural antidote to the Fight Flight response, which can be triggered all too often in our busy modern lives. Dr Benson's groundbreaking work, published in his 1975 book The Relaxation Response, remains relevant and potentially life-changing even today.Why the Relaxation Response mattersWith up to 90% of doctor's visits attributed to stress-related issues, it's clear that managing stress is crucial for our overall health. Stress can exacerbate chronic conditions, intensify pain, and contribute to a host of physical and mental health problems. By regularly practising the Relaxation Response, we can mitigate some of these effects and promote healing in our bodies. How to elicit the Relaxation ResponseThe beauty of the relaxation response is its simplicity and accessibility. You don't need any special equipment or beliefs to benefit from it. Here's a basic method to get started:1. Choose a quality you'd like more of in your life (e.g., calm, peace, joy – check out last week’s episode (38) Your Vibe for 2025 to help you choose).2. Find a comfortable position where you feel supported.3. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths.4. As you breathe in, imagine drawing in the quality you've chosen.5. As you breathe out, imagine spreading that quality throughout your body.6. Continue this practice for at least three minutes.Consciously incorporate more rest into your routineAs we start the new year, it's an excellent time to prioritise rest and relaxation in our daily lives. This might mean scheduling regular breaks, practising yoga nidra, or simply giving ourselves permission to do less and be more.Remember, your to-do list will never be completely finished. Life is inherently messy and busy. By making space for rest and relaxation, we're not falling behind – we're actually setting ourselves up for greater productivity, creativity, and overall wellbeing.A different approach to New Year, New YouInstead of pushing ourselves to do more this year, why not challenge ourselves to rest more deeply? By consciously activating the Relaxation Response regularly, we can improve our physical health, mental clarity, and emotional balance.Whether you choose to practise formal meditation, engage in repetitive activities like knitting or running, or simply take a few minutes each day to breathe mindfully, you're giving your body and mind a precious gift.As we step into 2025, you might make a commitment to yourself to prioritise rest, play, and relaxation. By doing so, we're not just improving our own lives – we're contributing to a calmer, more peaceful world.Wishing you a very Happy New Year! One that will include deep rest, joyful play, and the transformative power of the Relaxation Response. Want to explore the Relaxation Response and rest more?Half Moon (free subscribers) and Full Moon and Super Moon (paid subscribers) members of the Sole to Soul Circle will be getting your bonus content tomorrow. JOIN US le grá,EveiTRANSCRIPTIt's not all bad. I mean, stress can be a wonderful thing. We live in exciting timesas well as challenging times, but we want to allow the nervous system to havethat flexibility and it helps us to have that overall flexibility by reallydoing the things that calm the nervous system. And this is one gorgeous, gorgeousway.Hi,I'm Eve Menezes Cunningham and welcome to the Feel Better Every DayPodcast, Season 2. I am so excited to be sharing new trauma informed and ADHDfriendly ideas for you to help you take better care of yourself. That highest,wisest, truest, wildest, most joyful, brilliant and miraculous part ofyourself, as well as the basic self-care which we all know can be sochallenging at times.I really appreciate you tuning in. If you want a deeper dive, you'll be gettingbonus content each week if you sign up as a free or paid subscriber to the Soleto Soul Circle. You can do that for free or from as little as €8.00 amonth.And you can also find more ideas in the book 365 Ways to Feel Better Self-careIdeas for Embodied Wellbeing.Happy New Year. Welcome to Episode 38 (oops - 39) of the Feel Better Every Day Podcast. I can't believe it's 39 and we're in Season 2 now and we're going weekly.I hope that you're enjoying them and that also if you're a free subscriber orpaid subscriber, that's Half Moon member or Full Moon or Super Moon member ofthe Sole to Soul Circle, that you're enjoying the deeper dive videos as well.But there's something for everyone, and you don't need any of this to just listento your own body, listen to your own soul, listen to your own heart, listen toyour own thoughts, and just ask yourself in any given moment, ‘What do I needright now? How might I rest, reboot, relax?’  And that being said, I hope you enjoy the episode.Welcome to the Feel Better Every Day Podcast, welcoming 2025, wishing you a wondrous New Year and also a ‘new year, new you’ in a very different way. So we're working still with 365 Ways to Feel Better: Self-care Ideas for Embodied Wellbeing and for today's episodewe're going into more depth around the Relaxation Response.  Developed by Dr Herbert Benson, and he, wellit was discovered by Dr Herbert Benson, he was a Harvard cardiologist workingout of the same lab as Dr Walter B Cannon who, decades earlier, had discoveredthe Stress Response and fight, flight (later freeze was acknowledged and tendand befriend and there are different responses to stress). Dr Herbert Benson wrote a gorgeous bookpublished in 1975, the year I was born, and it's still radical now, I'm nearly50. And this is the kind of thing more people need to know about because up to90% of doctors visits are due to stress. It's not that it's all in your head but it isall in our bodies. So much stress then exacerbates whatever chronic conditionsyou might have, whatever like pain spots or like you might get migraines, youmight get backache, whatever it might be, it's going to be made worse whenyou're tight, when you're tense, when you're under stress.  Dr Herbert Benson was a cardiologist atHarvard and he went on to create so much around, he was a mind-body medicinepioneer, lecturing around the world into his 90s and he was studying meditatingmonks and also meditating lay people in America.  They were so excited about what they wereexperiencing when they were meditating, they wanted him to test what washappening with their hearts. Because he was at Harvard in the 60s and 70s hewas kind of like, ‘Go away, stop it, you're embarrassing me,’ so he actuallysnuck them in at night. It's such a gorgeous book, The RelaxationResponse, if you want to read it. And he realised that yes, they were reallyonto something. I'm going to demonstrate something a bit unusual about one wayto access this with even greater ease for the Full Moon and Super Moon membersof the Sole to Soul Circle, so if you would like to subscribe or upgrade, youcan do that at selfcarecoaching.net or at evemc.substack.com and you can dothis anytime, anywhere.  The more comfortable you are, the more heldyou feel by the planet, by the furniture, by whatever, the more deeply you'llbe able to relax. He discovered that it took three minutes orlonger to go into what he terms the Relaxation Response, but in this state ofrest, which is a wonderful way to start 2025, and to build deeper rest intoevery day for yourself.  We do too much, we try to do too much, we thenbeat ourselves up for not getting it all done and it will never all be done.I'm so looking forward to sharing the Getting Organised episode with you in afew weeks and my interviews with Lisa Woodruff, who just is an inspiration andmuch of that is her reminder that your to-do list will never be done. While we're alive, life is messy, so it'sreally important to schedule in rest, to schedule in space. I changed my life Ithink a year and a half ago when I started doing a daily yoga nidra and thennearly a year ago I started making time on the advice of my acupuncturist to doa longer yoga nidra every lunchtime. And I still find it challenging. I think Ihave to do do-do-do-do-do but I am in that practice. It's an extension of myyoga practice and sometimes it's more challenging than getting onto the mat anddoing a physical practice because doing is