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EPISODE · May 16, 2025 · 9 MIN

The Real Reason You Can’t Sit Still (Vault)

from Balance & Beyond · host Jo Stone

We unpack the psychological connection between our to-do lists and our sense of self-worth. This powerful insight reveals how our childhood conditioning has created a neurological pathway where we equate achievement with love, approval, and ultimately survival.• The never-ending to-do list has become a substitute for our need for approval• Our brain evolved to equate attention with love and survival from our earliest days• As children, we learned that achievement was a reliable way to gain parental attention• Ticking items off our lists gives us a dopamine hit, making us "dopamine junkies"• We often tie our emotional state (feeling calm, worthy) to completing external tasks• The key is detaching our sense of self-worth from productivity and achievement• You are enough just as you are, regardless of what remains on your to-do listIf this resonated, share it with a friend who needs to hear it today, and don't forget to subscribe to Balance and Beyond for full episodes and more of these bite-sized breakthroughs.Send a text message to JoThe Balance & Beyond Podcast Hosted by Jo Stone, founder of The Balance InstituteFor women who are already succeeding, but beginning to wonder if they're willing to keep losing themselves in the process.We know high achievers, because we are one. This podcast draws on Jo's 20 years in global leadership and thousands of hours coaching executives and ambitious women: the patterns she sees, how to untangle them, and what it actually takes to keep your success without paying for it with yourself.If something landed today, there's more where that came from.And if you know a woman this would resonate with, send it her way.🎙️https://www.balanceinstitute.com/podcast 🔗 www.balanceinstitute.com💼https://au.linkedin.com/in/stonejoanne📷 @therealjostone

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We unpack the psychological connection between our to-do lists and our sense of self-worth. This powerful insight reveals how our childhood conditioning has created a neurological pathway where we equate achievement with love, approval, and ultimately survival. • The never-ending to-do list has become a substitute for our need for approval • Our brain evolved to equate attention with love and survival from our earliest days • As children, we learned that achievement was a reliable way to gai...

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