The reason you don't take the action you need to

Welcome back to the Be More Lobster podcast! In this episode, I dive into the concept of why sometimes having no result can actually feel safer than putting yourself out there and risking possible failure. I open up with a client story and ask you to reflect: Have you ever had one of those mornings where you know exactly what needs to happen, but you end up feeling too tired or "off" to get started? You might find your brain offering up all kinds of logical reasons to avoid action, but what’s really underneath that?We look closely at how staying “busy” and stuck can actually be a clever way for our brains to protect us from vulnerability, disappointment, or uncertainty. I share real coaching insights from a recent group call where we uncovered how sometimes the exhaustion we feel isn’t physical, but emotional—stemming from the pressure of unfulfilled goals or the anticipation of taking bold steps.You'll hear me explore:How we unconsciously choose the discomfort we know, rather than risk the uncertainty of trying and potentially failingThe difference between genuine rest and avoidanceHow women in business (and all of us!) can stay busy tweaking and perfecting rather than taking real, progress-making actionThe importance of recognizing when we’re trading possibility for controlI leave you with simple, practical questions for self-reflection that you can journal about or ponder while walking:What’s the thing you’ve been putting off until you feel “ready”?What emotion might be sitting beneath that hesitation?Are you really tired, or is it a way of protecting yourself from uncertainty?If you stopped running the same old avoidance model, what’s the smallest next step you could take?This episode is all about noticing those moments where you choose a guaranteed "no" over a possible (but not assured) "yes"—and how you can gently challenge yourself to stretch into growth. Just like a lobster must shed its shell in order to grow, your growth comes from daring to be vulnerable and trying, even when the outcome is uncertain.Thank you for listening! I hope you find these insights valuable for embracing your own "lobster moments." If you loved the episode, don’t forget to subscribe and use the journaling prompts above.