The Riskiest Gift You Can Give Your Spouse

In this episode Paul explains why promising to change is one of the riskiest — and potentially most rewarding — gifts you can give your spouse. He urges careful reflection before making any commitment and offers a quiet approach: decide, plan, and act without announcing it. Paul gives practical examples (decluttering, setting boundaries with family, fixing chronic lateness, improving sexual intimacy, ending pornography) and stresses the cost and lasting value of real change in marriage.