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EPISODE · Sep 30, 2025 · 14 MIN

The Roles we Play to Feel Loved

from This is How We Feel with Dr Ali Walker · host Dr Ali Walker

Why do some of us become the overachiever, while others fade into the background or act out in rebellion?In this episode, we explore the 5 classic roles children take on in dysfunctional family systems - the Hero, the Rebel, the Lost Child, the Mascot, and the Caretaker. These roles aren’t personality traits - they’re survival strategies we unconsciously adopt to find safety, attention, or connection in emotionally chaotic environments.You’ll learn:Where these roles come from and why they formHow they shape our adult relationships and self-worthThe hidden emotional cost of playing a role to be lovedIf you’ve ever wondered why you became the way you are, or felt stuck in a version of yourself that doesn’t quite feel real, this episode is for you.

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