The Secret to Having More Self Control by Apostle Otis B. Young on Sunday, July 26, 2026

In a culture that encourages instant reactions, public clapping back, and constant online drama, self-control can feel like a forgotten virtue. In this insightful teaching, Apostle Otis B. Young unpacks how emotional discipline, guarded speech, and spiritual maturity are essential for living a victorious Christian life. Moving beyond just diet or spending habits, self-control touches our facial expressions, our social media posts, our mental thought life, and how we handle conflict with others. Through practical examples from Jesus' life, wisdom from the book of Proverbs, and candid personal insights, you will discover how to guard your peace and refuse to give toxic situations the reaction they are looking for. -- Understanding self-control as a fruit of the Spirit that governs our emotions, facial expressions, and reactions. -- Learning from Jesus’ example of restraint in the wilderness and on the cross when He chose not to retaliate. -- Recognizing "quiet instigators" and "rage baiters" while choosing not to give them the reaction they want. -- Mastering the discipline of guarded speech by knowing when to speak and when to remain silent ("quiet on the creek"). -- Shifting from gossiping and "clocking the tea" to setting the standard and being an example ("be the tea"). -- Replacing physical or verbal retaliation with spiritual responses such as prayer, love, and forgiveness. -- Practical application of self-control in daily life, including social media usage, personal finances, and managing difficult phone calls. Scriptures for Further Study -- Proverbs 15:1-2 -- Proverbs 15:28 -- Proverbs 16:22-23 -- 1 Peter 2:23 +++++++ Find more information on our website here: https://www.teamkingdom.business/