The Session: Children of Divorce 2026

The Session: Children of Divorce, an Overview of Research and ArticlesMatthew 19:14, “Let the little children come to me.”Children of divorce, living in two households face complex emotional, relational, and spiritual challenges. The Emotional ImpactThe impact of two houses has a direct hit or impact on the child’s security and stabilityThe impact of two houses also causes a grieving process of the loss of having two biological parents in their houseChildren also feel torn between both houses. They fear showing allegiance to one. Parent may hurt the other parent.Children off, so feel hesitant and fearful of sharing their feelings in the two households because of the ramifications that could happenOften times children do not want to alienate the parent that appears to be hurt or could be hurtThe impact of divorce and two houses on a child relationship with GodChildren can struggle with issues a prayer, trust, and why did God allow this to happen to their family?Coparenting Strategies for HealingIt is important for split families to focus on grace, forgiveness, and the child's well-being. Todd Taylor writes in his article, the Secret to Success in Christian CoparentingChristian parenting in a split-home environment requires focusing on grace, forgiveness, and the child's well-being. The cornerstone of successful Christian co-parenting is always prioritizing your child’s physical and emotional well-being.DLM Christian LifestyleDaniel Maritz in DLM Christian Lifestyle states that broken families lead to broken societies Focus on the Family, One Child Two Homes, elaborates on the problems, children faceThey live a life of constant transition.Life has two sets of parents, two groups of siblings and two different beds. It means switching between different rules and routines and having two homes yet often feeling as if he were not a part of either.Parents are often unaware of the stress a child endures when he’s shuffled between two homes.Children crave stability. In its absence, they may become territorial about their belongings and their space. Their “things” become their security.Ways to help children of divorce living in two separate homesThe major challenge is in having consistent rules between the two houses.It’s about making it safe for the children to talk and be heardIt’s about providing as much stability as possible.It’s about security and consistency in their lives A devotional podcast for parents on the go! Encouragement, Scripture, & prayer in just 7 minutes. Join the journey!To reach Tom Russell, please call 419-709-8447, email Tom at [email protected], or visit his website at https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com