The Session: The Empty Nest

The Session: Living the Empty Nest Life to the Fullest, from Michelle Howe, Focus on the FamilyJeremiah 29:11For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.Rev Up Your MarriageThis could be a marriage retreatIt could also mean planning more 24-72 hour getawaysIt may also include going on a cruiseKeep TalkingTry to connect with the person that you originally fell in love with and talk about memoriesYou could attempt to make it a romantic evening over a nice dinner for two.Make a list of things that you would want to see happen or do with your remaining yearsJeremiah 29:11 tells us to focus on the plans, hope and the future that God has for the remainder of your married life.You and your spouse should be open to trying new things in the empty nest. That may mean joining a local gym or taking up a sport. It could be a dance group or a book club.Don’t Let the Past Predict and/or Ruin the FutureIt is important that we keep short accounts of anger. If one of you or your spouse are carrying a past hurt, it is important to bring it before the Lord and lay it at Jesus feet and let go of it.Actively Strengthen Relationships, and Prioritize Self-CareThis could mean focusing on a relationship that is important to both of you that may have been neglected over time. Encourage getting together for a meal or some kind of outing.As mentioned earlier, joining a gym can help a couple enhance their self-care. Regular workouts will help maintain the body longer.TravelIt is very doable to check online for a day trip in your state that you live in. This is an example of something you may not have had time to do when you were in the heat of yourTo reach Tom Russell, please call 419-709-8447, email Tom at [email protected], or visit his website at https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com