The Session: The Energy Vampire

The Session: The Energy Vampire, by Dr. MosunicPsalm 29:11May the Lord give strength to his people! May the Lord bless his people with peace!First, let’s define the energy vampire…bleh bleh blehDifferent types of energy vampires?Energy vampires are people who suck the energy right out of you. After talking to them, you feel exhausted and are not real sure why.Dr. Mosunic would say that energy vampires are the type of person who constantly demands your attention, support, or empathy, oftentimes without realizing it. The effects of being around an energy vampire is more than just feeling a bit tired after a long chat. It's about feeling constantly worn out, stressed, or even sad after your interactions with them.Different types of energy vampiresThe Victim This type of energy vampire is always encountering problems and seeking sympathy. They often see themselves as perpetually wronged by life and share their woes frequently, expecting constant support and reassurance.The CriticizerThe criticizer is quick to point out flaws and rarely has anything positive to say. Whether it's about your choices or general aspects of life, their constant criticism can chip away at your confidence and leave you feeling judged and inadequate.Ecclesiastes 4:9-10"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up."The DramatizerThe dramatizer’s need for drama can create an atmosphere of tension and unrest. They are capable of blowing things out of proportion to keep the center of attention.They tell the worst-case scenario for attention and acceptance  The BlamerBlamers have a habit of holding others responsible for their own problems. They struggle to take accountability for their actions and often find someone else to point fingers atBlame has a job description. It keeps the fuels of anger alive, and it shifts responsibility to take care of it to the person they are angry at.The ManipulatorManipulators are skilled in using emotional tactics to get what they want. They might use guilt, pity, or flattery, making it challenging to discern their true intentions.The all too powerful guilt trip How to spot an emotional vampire: 4 signsThey Need to Be The Center Of AttentionThey are capable of interrupting conversations and driving them back to themselvesTheir constant need for attention can be very drainingThey exaggerate problemsSarcasm is their friend. They are very capable of blowing things out of proportion.They blame others constantlyThey refuse to take responsibility for their issues.Their toxicity is very toxic on their environment where people don’t want to work.The Locus of Control isn’t in themThey use peopleThey are masterful at manipulating people and situations to their advantage To reach Tom Russell, please call 419-709-8447, email Tom at [email protected], or visit his website at https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com