The True Power of Your Genitals (That No One Talks About) - with Simon Paul Sutton | #12

What if your genitals were never just physical, but a gateway to deeper connection, aliveness, and even consciousness?In this episode, I sit down with Simon Paul Sutton to explore the true power of being comfortable with your own sexual center and the power of self pleasure.Because instead of feeling, we’ve been conditioned to perform in the bedroom.This conversation is a deep dive into what happens when you move beyond technique, beyond pressure, and start relating to your body as something alive, intelligent, and deeply powerful.I don’t just guide this conversation. I also open up about my own experiences with dating, vulnerability, and the moments where I catch myself disconnecting from my body.In This Episode, We Explore: Why your genitals are not just physical, but an access point to deeper awareness and connection The difference between performance-based intimacy vs. embodied intimacy How conditioning and shame disconnect you from your natural pleasure response The overlooked power of softness, slowness, and subtle sensation Why many people are chasing intensity instead of true aliveness The pressure on men to perform—and how it impacts both partners  How your body communicates through sensation, energy, and presence Why real intimacy starts with honest communication and emotional safety The role of your inner patterns (inner girl/boy) in intimacy and dating Personal Shares From Me In this Episode: My own experience of dating and going into my head instead of my body The moment of realizing: “There’s attraction… but no safety” How lack of clarity creates tension and disconnection in intimacy The courage it takes to ask: “What is this actually?” My growing compassion for men and the pressure they carry to perform Why I believe true intimacy requires both safety + self-expressionKey Takeaways Your body is not a tool—it’s an intelligent system of sensation and awareness Pleasure expands when you shift from doing → feeling The real power of your genitals lies in connection, not performance Slowness and presence unlock levels of intimacy most people never reach  Communication is what allows your body to fully relax and open🔗 Connect with Simon Paul Sutton:Follow Simon on Instagram: @simonpaulsuttonCheck out all of his Events here: https://simonpaulsutton.com/Let’s Stay Connected→ Instagram: @shari.vandecraen→ Website: www.sharivandecraen.com⭐️ If You Loved This Episode…Please take 60 seconds to leave a 5-star rating and review. It helps more and more people find this powerful work and reclaim their sensuality. Thank you for being here.Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/shari.vandecraenFollow my sensual photography account on instagram: www.instagram.com/project.radianceVisit my website for freebies and my latest courses: www.sharivandecraen.com