The Truth About Happy Marriage: Michelle Purta

In this episode, I sit down with marriage coach Michelle Purta for an honest, layered conversation about what it really takes to build a healthy relationship. So many of us grew up believing that love was something you feel... that if you just found “the one,” everything else would fall into place. But as Michelle shares, lasting love isn’t luck or magic. It’s built on emotional maturity, communication, and the willingness to take accountability for our own part in the relationship. We explore what it means to be the “common denominator” in your relationship patterns and how to move from blame and resentment toward self-reflection and change. Michelle also breaks down the myth that happiness in marriage means being happy all the time and explains why learning to know—and love—yourself is the foundation for intimacy, connection, and better communication. Together, we talk about: Why healthy marriages aren’t just for the lucky ones The difference between taking accountability and blaming yourself How to show up as the partner you want to be (without losing yourself) Why fear of the unknown keeps so many women stuck in unfulfilling relationships How honesty with yourself creates emotional and physical intimacy The power of sharing your self-discovery journey with your partner Practical ways to rebuild connection, communication, and desire This episode is a reminder that love is not a feeling you chase—it’s a daily choice, a practice, and a reflection of how deeply you know and honor yourself. If you’ve ever wondered why your marriage feels disconnected, or how to bring back emotional and physical closeness, this conversation will give you a compassionate, realistic roadmap for what’s possible when you start with you. Connect with Michelle:  Social media: michellepurtacoaching Email: [email protected] Free Marriage Workbook: https://www.michellepurta.com/pg/marriage360   Connect With Evelyn:  Facebook: Evelyn LeVasseur Instagram: @itsevelynlevasseur YouTube: Minding Mine   Free Guide: What Your Exhaustion Is Really Trying To Tell You Apply To Work With Me: Here