EPISODE · Jun 26, 2025 · 1H 7M
The Ultimate Guide to Fisting (ft. Jamie Joy)
from In Bed With Alexa: Have Better Sex · host Alexa Andre - Sexologist and Relationship Expert
In this very juicy and educational episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with Jamie Joy, a queer, trans certified sex educator and full-blown fisting aficionado. We dive deep (literally and figuratively) into the world of fisting, from how to prep and practice it safely to the surprising aftercare and emotional intensity it can carry.We also discuss:How to prep for fisting (from hygiene to headspace)Differences between vaginal and anal fistingSafety tips, including glove use, nails, and douchingWhy fisting is more emotional and intimate than you’d thinkWhat to do if you're curious about trying itDebunking myths about poop, pain, and gay panicThe role of breath, communication, and pleasure in anal playThe stigma around anal play—especially for straight menJamie's favorite techniques and their own mold of their fist (yes, really!)You can check out more of Jamie's work here!🌈 New to the pod? Subscribe, rate & leave us a review. And if you want unedited episodes + a peek into my personal dating and sex life, join us on Patreon. You’ll also get added to my IG Close Friends list 💌Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 50% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up:https://beducate.me/alexa-june
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In this very juicy and educational episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with Jamie Joy, a queer, trans certified sex educator and full-blown fisting aficionado. We dive deep (literally and figuratively) into the world of fisting, from how to prep and practice it safely to the surprising aftercare and emotional intensity it can carry.We also discuss:How to prep for fisting (from hygiene to headspace)Differences between vaginal and anal fistingSafety tips, including glove use, nails, and douchingWhy fisting is more emotional and intimate than you’d thinkWhat to do if you're curious about trying itDebunking myths about poop, pain, and gay panicThe role of breath, communication, and pleasure in anal playThe stigma around anal play—especially for straight menJamie's favorite techniques and their own mold of their fist (yes, really!)You can check out more of Jamie's work here!🌈 New to the pod? Subscribe, rate & leave us a review. And if you want unedited episodes + a peek into my personal dating and sex life, join us on Patreon. You’ll also get added to my IG Close Friends list 💌Thank you, Beducated, for making this exploration possible. Use code ALEXA to try their platform for free for 24h and, if you love it, get 50% off their yearly pass. 14 day money back guarantee if you don't! Click here to sign up:https://beducate.me/alexa-june
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