EPISODE · Jul 12, 2026 · 12 MIN
The Voice That Is Shoulding on Your Parade
from Musings of a Former Overachiever · host Holly Lewis
Are you motivating yourself with "should," or creating unnecessary pressure?In this episode of Musings of a Former Overachiever, I explore how the word should quietly triggers guilt, shame, and a nervous system threat response that makes clear thinking harder. Discover why the opposite of "should" isn't doing whatever you want. It's making conscious choices that align with your values.You'll learn:Why "should" often feels like you're doing life wrongThe difference between choice and consequencesHow to shift from pressure and obligation to agency and self-leadershipIf this episode resonated with you, follow the show, leave a review and share it with another overachiever who's ready to lead with less pressure and more clarity.
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Are you motivating yourself with "should," or creating unnecessary pressure?In this episode of Musings of a Former Overachiever, I explore how the word should quietly triggers guilt, shame, and a nervous system threat response that makes clear thinking harder. Discover why the opposite of "should" isn't doing whatever you want. It's making conscious choices that align with your values.You'll learn:Why "should" often feels like you're doing life wrongThe difference between choice and consequencesHow to shift from pressure and obligation to agency and self-leadershipIf this episode resonated with you, follow the show, leave a review and share it with another overachiever who's ready to lead with less pressure and more clarity.
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