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EPISODE · Aug 14, 2023 · 30 MIN

These secret agreements are killing your relationships with Traver Boehm

from The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm · host Traver Boehm

I wish I had a more easily understood term for the words Covert Contracts, but I don’t…yet. And — everyone has these secret, one-way agreements in our relationships that slowly build resentment, erode trust, and actually prevent us from getting the very needs we’re desperate to get met from doing just that. In this solo episode I break down what a Covert Contract is, how you can spot them in your relationship, and how you can STOP using them and instead speak your needs directly. Enjoy Cheers, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to sign up for the⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kill the Nice Guy course⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

I wish I had a more easily understood term for the words Covert Contracts, but I don’t…yet. And — everyone has these secret, one-way agreements in our relationships that slowly build resentment, erode trust, and actually prevent us from getting the very needs we’re desperate to get met from doing just that. In this solo episode I break down what a Covert Contract is, how you can spot them in your relationship, and how you can STOP using them and instead speak your needs directly. Enjoy Cheers, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Click here to sign up for the⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Kill the Nice Guy course⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

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