These Things Drive Priests Crazy with Fr. Leo Patalinghug

You probably have a litany of complaints about your priest. But what does your priest think about YOU? In this episode, I sat down with Fr. Leo Patalinghug (yes, the priest who beat Bobby Flay), and I gave him permission to unload. This priest chef turns the tables to serve up an honest assessment of the parishioner behaviors that drain the life out of priests...and how we can do better at bringing our best to Mass and Confession. And, honestly...we need to hear this! Our conversation is authentic, funny, and convicting as Fr. Leo reflects on his 25 years of priesthood and parish ministry to offer solid advice on how to further engage at Mass and use the sacrament of Confession for its intended purpose of both absolving your sins and healing your mind and heart. He shares some funny stories along the way about people using the confessional as a counseling session or confessing other people's sins and not their own, those who don't pray along audibly at Mass, and his impression of the face that so many people in the pews are making while lifelessly staring back at him during Mass. (Don't miss it! ) He also offers sound reasons for WHY we should care about the way we confess our sins and our approach to attending Mass. He has some beautiful thoughts on God's mercy, the seal of Confession, and showing respect to the Lord by fully immersing ourselves in the liturgy. Let's continue to pray for our priests who have given their lives to serve the Body of Christ. And let's use Fr. Leo's tips to renew our approach to the sacraments and fully embrace God's love and mercy. HIGHLIGHTS0:00 Why Catholics love critiquing priests3:49 Confession is not counseling6:01 Why saying the sin brings healing9:00 Scrupulosity, despair, and self-hatred11:29 Let God love you with his mercy14:19 Presumption vs. real repentance18:27 Why confession sets us free psychologically25:21 What priests need from us at Mass30:12 “Mouth the words” — why participation matters35:06 Why you leaving Mass early crushes priests ........ Sign up for The Daily Anchor to get Chris Stefanick's bite-sized reflections every morning: https://bit.ly/48Xfhfk........ Support the creation of this content by becoming a Missionary of Joy with a monthly gift to Real Life Catholic and get free access to the new Living Peace study series: https://bit.ly/4nTHbN0........ The Chris Stefanick Show will soon be premiering on EWTN+ Streaming! You can start watching more great content at: EWTN.com/ondemand/ ........ Join Chris Stefanick on pilgrimage: https://www.reallifecatholic.com/pilgrimages.........Listen to the "Chris Stefanick Show" as a podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3ZOMMAyrrwyFVVcEPU85vV Chapters (00:00:00) - The Problem with Our Priests(00:01:04) - Chris Stefanik: Joy in Everyday Life(00:03:47) - What's the Nightmare Confession to Hear?(00:07:55) - The Importance of Confessions(00:09:33) - Mission: Joy(00:13:21) - Confession and the Real Sins(00:17:13) - In the Elevator With Confession(00:21:22) - The Sacrificial Confession(00:25:18) - Homilies at Mass(00:27:54) - 5 Tips Catholics Should Not Make for Mass(00:31:28) - What Drives All Priests Crazy(00:35:06) - What Do We Need From You?(00:36:44) - Priests and the Liturgy