EPISODE · Mar 25, 2025 · 8 MIN
They Want You… Until They Have You: The Avoidant's Hot and Cold Trap
from The Susan Winter Show · host Susan Winter: Professional Love and Life Mentor
The avoidant craves you when you're distant but loses interest when you're available. Hot/cold. Push/pull. It will remain the same… until you do this: #DismissiveAvoidant #HotandCold The avoidant's attraction is fueled by longing, not love. It's easy to hope your absence has sparked their desire. But once you're back in their arms, their fear of engulfment triggers them to pull away. This cycle keeps them uncommitted, always seeking greener grass while leaving you questioning if the connection was ever real. The Avoidant's Push-Pull Dynamics Their Fear of Intimacy Ending Your Emotional Rollercoaster Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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