The Susan Winter Show

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The Susan Winter Show

SUSAN WINTER is a leading relationship expert and love coach who has helped over 6,500 people find, and keep, love. As a bestselling author, (Older Women/Younger Men, Allowing Magnificence, and Breakup Triage), Susan specializes in evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. She writes, speaks and coaches on dating issues, relationship challenges, and personal empowerment. Internationally recognized as a thought leader in her field, Susan's 1,250+ top tier media credits include: THE NEW YORK TIMES, THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW, THE TODAY SHOW, CNN HEADLINE NEWS, ABC EVENING NEWS, BBC NEWS, CNBC, TALKTV LONDON, ITV NEWS, FOX NEWS, COSMOPOLITAN MAGAZINE, MEN'S HEALTH, HARPER'S BAZAAR, PEOPLE, BUSINESS INSIDER, FORBES, FORTUNE MAGAZINE, NEW YORK MAGAZINE, THE LONDON TIMES, IRISH EXAMINER, EL MUNDO, BAHRAIN WOMAN, MUMBAI MIRROR, and the IRISH TIMES. In radio, Susan is a frequent guest on NPR, BBC, ABC, and CBS NEWS. Her podcast, The Susan Winter Show, can be heard on Spotify,

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    Dating Younger Men? The Rules That Actually Make It Work

    Dating a younger man? Know the rules. Dating younger men works beautifully when you know the rules. What makes it succeed, or quietly fall apart, isn’t the age. It’s your mindset and communication style that either make or break your connection. Be Fair. Don’t Compare. Differentiating Strength vs Control The Key is Communication “Why Reverse Age-Gap Relationships Are on the Rise”by Mark Travers Ph.D. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    They Want You… Until They Have You: The Avoidant's Hot and Cold Trap

    The avoidant craves you when you're distant but loses interest when you're available. Hot/cold. Push/pull. It will remain the same… until you do this: #DismissiveAvoidant #HotandCold The avoidant's attraction is fueled by longing, not love. It's easy to hope your absence has sparked their desire. But once you're back in their arms, their fear of engulfment triggers them to pull away. This cycle keeps them uncommitted, always seeking greener grass while leaving you questioning if the connection was ever real. The Avoidant's Push-Pull Dynamics Their Fear of Intimacy Ending Your Emotional Rollercoaster Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Here's What Obsession's Hiding

    Obsession enables us to ignore red flags. We've locked onto the moment we felt desired and adored. Now, that moments gone. But we're still trapped in a loop of yearning...until we understand the Relevancy Principle.  The Mental Snapshot That Hooked You Why We Ignore Red Flags  Assessing Present Behavior- Relevancy Principle Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Get Back With Your Ex: Hope or Delusion?

    Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here's how to get what you truly want… 1.Consider the past- positive or negative 2.Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3.Do they care to try again? Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Can You LOVE Someone Without Loving Yourself?

    Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here's how to get what you truly want… 1.Consider the past- positive or negative 2.Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3.Do they care to try again? Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    How to let go (when you don't want to let go)

    Struggling To Let Go? No one said letting go was easy, but here's how to enable (and assist) Life in moving you forward to find love again.  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    4 Reasons why dating has become so hard (and how you can fix it)

    It's not just you. Everyone's confused, frustrated, and about to lose hope. Here are the 4 reasons why dating has become so hard (and what you can do about it). #datingadvice #BDB #baddatingbehavior #datinggames Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Dating Games: How to give up ‘game' (and move to real)

    Games are seductive, and sadly, often effective. How do you give up game and move to ‘real?' Here's how to get the quality of partnership you crave: #datinggames #authenticity #datingadvice Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    New Relationships: Your Partner's ‘Ever-Present' Ex

    You see merit in your new partner. BUT — their ‘ever-present' ex is way too close for comfort. Here's how to voice your concerns (and boundaries) with confidence: #Partner'sEx #boundaries Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Manifesting the love (and life) you desire

    Want to learn the key to manifesting the love (and life) you desire? Learn how to activate the ‘mental equivalent.' #manifesting #mentalquivalent Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Breakups: Knowing It's Your Fault They Left

    How do you handle the guilt and remorse of knowing that you were the one that caused the breakup? Here's how to deal with the aftermath of that knowledge and create a benefit: #breakups #guilt Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Do they love YOU (or the money and status)?

    You've worked hard and it shows. How do you know the authenticity of a partner's ‘feelings' when there's notable money and status involved? My answer: #datingadvice #money #status Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    After the breakup (accepting they're gone)

    Wondering how to have the closure you need to move on? Here's how to say what needs to be said and how to accept it's over: #breakups #closure #video #movingon Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    You're Finally Over Your Ex (then they reach out)

    You've finally set yourself free from your ex. Then unexpectedly, they reach out. Is this a test from the Universe? Or hope for a second chance? My answers: #ex #breakups #testfromUniverse Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Can I trust again (after my narcissist)?

    You barely survived the breakup with your narcissist. How do you heal and trust a future partner? Here's the key to your stability, confidence, and trust: #breakups #narcissist #trust Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    New Love: Hope vs. Red Flags

    New love is intoxicating. But its early hopefulness can blind you into ignoring red flags.  How will you know the thin line that divides hope from denial? Watch this: #newlove #redflags #video #denial  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Comparing new partners to your ex?

    Do you find yourself comparing your current dates to your former mate? Do they pale in comparison? Or serve as a guide to what's good? Here's how to make it work to your benefit: #ex #breakups #comparetoex #datingadvice  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Why is ‘unattainable' so seductive?

    The allure of the one we can't have is intensely compelling. But why? Why is unattainable more desirable than what's readily available? Here's the key to releasing yourself from this self-defeating loop: #unattainable #unavailable #avoidant Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Breakups: Looking to ‘them' for closure?

    What happens when you're dumped, and your partner won't give you a concrete reason? Lack of closure can keep you in a loop of heartache. Here's the way out and back to wholeness: #closure #breakups  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Why they left (after you finally opened up to love)

    You held back and protected your heart. Finally, you felt it was safe to let go…only to see your partner vanish. What happened? Here's the answer: #breakups #fallinginlove #holdingback  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Are you waiting on a ‘maybe?'

    Has someone put you in a holding pattern? Before you commit to waiting on a ‘maybe,' ask yourself these questions: #maybe #friendzone #avoidant Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Something's wrong. Should I speak up?

    You sense that something's wrong. Your partner is pulling away. You want to speak up but fear doing so. What if you look weak and needy? Here's the best approach to take: #pullingaway #speakingup #somethingswrong Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Breakups: The Dumper's Remorse

    You were the one who initiated the breakup (in order to feel better). But now you feel worse (with sadness and guilt). This is the ‘dumper's remorse:' #breakups #dumpersremorse #guilt #video  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Law of Attraction: Attracting a partner/Re-attracting an ex

    Want to use the Law of Attraction to call in a partner or re-ignite and ex? Here's the distinction between fantasizing and manifesting. #LOA #breakups #attraction  
  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    How to forgive yourself (for loving them)

    First you were angry at your ex. Then, hurt. And resentful. Now, you're simmering in the uncomfortable realization it's not ‘about them.' Here's how to forgive yourself for loving them: #breakuprecovery #forgivingyourself   Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Dating Games: The ‘turnaround' trick

    Does your partner refuse to take responsibility for their actions? Do they become the ‘victim' and make you the ‘bad guy' for expressing yourself? Escape the ‘turnaround' trick by doing this:  #datinggames #turnaround  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Valentine's Day: Strategy for Singles

    Single this Valentine's Day? It's just one day — but it can create emotional havoc. Here are my top 3 tips for a positive mindset that allows you to flourish: #single #ValentinesDay   Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Dating Games: The Emotional Opportunist:

    Beware of the emotional opportunist. They're in and out of your life at will, using you as a safety net and ego boost. You're the backup plan that never gets off the back burner. What should you do? #emotionalopportunist #datinggames  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Breakup Recovery: Disillusion and Obsession

    Your breakup has you churning over the decisions you made and the events that transpired. How can you set yourself free? Here's the key to relief, and the cure for disillusionment: #breakups #obsession  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Older Women/Younger Men — Why comparing him to older men is unfair

    Comparing your young guy to older men isn't fair. Nor is it an accurate measure of his worth. Here's how to acknowledge age-gap differences and discover their benefit: #olderwomen #youngermen #comparison  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    How to (successfully) date an entrepreneur

    Dating an entrepreneur is an art form. When the normal rules of dating don't apply to a work-obsessed partner, here's the way to gain emotional traction and priority status: #entrepreneur #startup #datingadvice  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Breakups: But… can't we be ‘friends?'

    There's a cruel form of torture when an ex no longer wants us but wants a shoulder to lean on and our presence in their lives. Here's how to figure out the right choice for your ultimate happiness: #breakups #friendzone #ex   Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    How do I accept the fact that it's over?

    Are you struggling to accept that your relationship is over? Here's the key to accepting ‘what is,' while retaining your inner fortitude and positivity: #breakups  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Why don't we want the ones who want us?

    Why is it that we don't want the person who wants us, but crave the one we can't quite get? Human nature can work against us until we come to this understanding: #attraction #chemistry #datingadvice #video  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Was our ‘connection' real? Or, was it just me?

    How do we explain feeling a powerful connection… that ends up going nowhere? Was it real? And if so, why did it end? Here's what really happened: #connection #attraction #chemistry  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Accepting there's no “us” anymore

    Your breakup has left a palpable void. Moving on and accepting it's over is especially hard since your partner has also been your 'person.' Here's how to honor what was, and open up to what can be: #datingadvice#relationshipexpert #relationshipadvice #breakups #divorcerecovery  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Incompatible on paper. But good in real life?

    The two of you look bad on paper — but could you work out in real life? Here's how to discern deal breaker from the starting point of honest communication:   #negotiation #opposites #dealbreakers #datingadvicen  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    How to let go of a love that never happened

    Are you struggling to let go of a love that never happened? If memories of intense chemistry and hopeful dreams of a future together keep haunting you, watch this: #love #endings  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Breakups: Can't get over your ex?

    Can't get over your ex? Here's how to unite your mind and heart to attain a new reality of inner peace: #ex #breakups  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    The ‘mixed message' breakup (is it real)?

    A messy breakup with mixed messages is horrific to experience and impossible to understand. Is it a sick dating game? Or, does our ex want us back? Here's what's really happening: #breakups #mixedmessages   Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Do you take the blame for feeling hurt?

    Your feelings are hurt. Are you to blame for being overly sensitive, or is it your partner's error? Here's how to discern the validity of an emotional reaction: #blame #overlysensitive #HSP  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Turning your crush into a reality

    What's the difference between a fanciful crush that's delicious to ponder, and one that becomes a relationship? Here are the 3 stages needed to actualize your dream: #crush #datingadvice  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Giving too much (too soon)

    Do you tend to give too much, too soon? Here's how to assess your pace and generosity for the best romantic results: #overgiving #newrelationships   Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Breakups: The ‘Aha' moment of relief

    You suddenly find yourself thinking of an ex. Does that mean they're thinking of you? Here's how to interpret this ethereal premise: #ex #breakup #LOA #metaphysics  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Can you turn a FWB's into a partner?

    Are you confused by the intense closeness of your ‘friend with benefits?” Do you wonder if they could be a ‘partner?' Here's how to navigate the way to a relationship: #FWB #situationship  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Is it Love? Or, just desperation and convenience?

    Triggered by thoughts of your ex? How do you know the truth of your feelings? Here's how to discern love from desperation and convenience: #ex #triggered #desperation #convenience  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    New love? The perils of ‘overcorrecting'

    Overcorrecting unwanted behaviors from a past relationship can jeopardize your new one. Avoid creating ‘the distancing dance,' boundary and pace issues by doing this: #overcorrection #distancingdance #datingadvice  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Are you stuck in the breakup/makeup loop?

    Are you tired of being stuck in the makeup/breakup loop? Here's how to activate your courage and free yourself from the cycle of unfulfilled promises and dashed hopes: #breakups #makeupbreakuploop   Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Are you patient, or a pushover?

    What's the difference between being patient, and being a pushover? Here's how to discern which move to make according to the circumstances: #newrelationship #situationship    Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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    Arguments: Are you apologizing to keep peace?

    Are you managing your partner's bad mood by taking the blame? Break the argument loop by changing your default position. Here's how to fight fair and get results: #arguments #couples  Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

SUSAN WINTER is a leading relationship expert and love coach who has helped over 6,500 people find, and keep, love. As a bestselling author, (Older Women/Younger Men, Allowing Magnificence, and Breakup Triage), Susan specializes in evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. She writes, speaks and coaches on dating issues, relationship challenges, and personal empowerment. Internationally recognized as a thought leader in her field, Susan's 1,250+ top tier media credits include: THE NEW YORK TIMES, THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW, THE TODAY SHOW, CNN HEADLINE NEWS, ABC EVENING NEWS, BBC NEWS, CNBC, TALKTV LONDON, ITV NEWS, FOX NEWS, COSMOPOLITAN MAGAZINE, MEN'S HEALTH, HARPER'S BAZAAR, PEOPLE, BUSINESS INSIDER, FORBES, FORTUNE MAGAZINE, NEW YORK MAGAZINE, THE LONDON TIMES, IRISH EXAMINER, EL MUNDO, BAHRAIN WOMAN, MUMBAI MIRROR, and the IRISH TIMES. In radio, Susan is a frequent guest on NPR, BBC, ABC, and CBS NEWS. Her podcast, The Susan Winter Show, can be heard on Spotify,

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