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The Susan Winter Show
by Susan Winter: Professional Love and Life Mentor
SUSAN WINTER is a leading relationship expert and love coach who has helped over 6,500 people find, and keep, love. As a bestselling author, (Older Women/Younger Men, Allowing Magnificence, and Breakup Triage), Susan specializes in evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. She writes, speaks and coaches on dating issues, relationship challenges, and personal empowerment. Internationally recognized as a thought leader in her field, Susan's 1,250+ top tier media credits include: THE NEW YORK TIMES, THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW, THE TODAY SHOW, CNN HEADLINE NEWS, ABC EVENING NEWS, BBC NEWS, CNBC, TALKTV LONDON, ITV NEWS, FOX NEWS, COSMOPOLITAN MAGAZINE, MEN'S HEALTH, HARPER'S BAZAAR, PEOPLE, BUSINESS INSIDER, FORBES, FORTUNE MAGAZINE, NEW YORK MAGAZINE, THE LONDON TIMES, IRISH EXAMINER, EL MUNDO, BAHRAIN WOMAN, MUMBAI MIRROR, and the IRISH TIMES. In radio, Susan is a frequent guest on NPR, BBC, ABC, and CBS NEWS. Her podcast, The Susan Winter Show, can be heard on Spotify,
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Age Gap Relationships: Will the Younger Partner Age Too Fast?
Worried your age gap relationship will make you age too fast? It's a common question I get from clients and followers. Here’s what really happens when younger and older partners build a relationship. Age gap relationships are surrounded by myths. One of the most persistent claims is that the younger partner will somehow "age too fast." While there's no scientific evidence to support that belief, there is a greater development of emotional and psychological maturity. This isn’t ‘aging.’ It’s personal growth. Ultimately, the couple finds ‘balance’ as they grow together. The Myth of Aging Too Fast Psychological Growth vs. Physical Aging Finding Your Own Relationship Balance “Why Reverse Age-Gap Relationships Are on the Rise”by Mark Travers Ph.D. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Blindsided Breakup? They Sold You THE DREAM
They didn't just break your heart. They crafted THE DREAM that broke it. This type of blindsided breakup is devastating and can leave you doubting yourself. Discover the hidden dynamic behind being "fed the dream," and why focusing on THEM keeps you stuck. Here's the powerful mental shift that activates your confidence and enables you to move forward. They Fed You the Dream Staying Stuck vs Getting Free Action Steps That Move You Forward “Why Reverse Age-Gap Relationships Are on the Rise”by Mark Travers Ph.D. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Why ‘Who You Are’ Shapes the Love You Attract
The love you get starts with YOU. It's central to the type of person you attract and the key to your happiness. In life and love, it’s all about you. YOU are the centerpiece of every relationship: your attitude, mindset, confidence, and solidity. Give yourself permission to move away from what no longer serves you and forward toward who you are becoming. It Starts With You Become Who You Seek Change You. Change Love. “Why Reverse Age-Gap Relationships Are on the Rise”by Mark Travers Ph.D. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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How to Attract an Older Woman: What Younger Men Need to Know
Wondering how to make an older woman view you as viable relationship material? Here’s what younger guys need to know in order to bypass f*boy and be seen in totality. #olderwomen #youngermen An older woman needs to see that you can lead… that she can count on you and lean back. This means being decisive, a man of your word, and in your integrity. Though younger, you need to show her you can handle life’s challenges and be an accountable partner. Honest Communication and Sharing Lead With Clarity and Decisiveness Prove Accountability and Forethought “Why Reverse Age-Gap Relationships Are on the Rise”by Mark Travers Ph.D. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Can't Stop Going Back to Your Ex? Here's Why
Can't stop going back to your ex? Hoping each reunion will fix what's broken? If so, you’re stuck in the breakup loop. BUT… but there is a way out: Going back doesn’t always mean you’re confused or weak. Sometimes it means you’re moving through something you don’t understand yet when a relationship keeps pulling you back. The Breakup Loop’s Mythology Why Hope (Can Be) Harmful Keep The Dream. Replace The Person “Why Reverse Age-Gap Relationships Are on the Rise”by Mark Travers Ph.D. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Older Women/Younger Men: WHY DOES THIS SHOCK US?
Reverse age-gap relationships are making headlines everywhere. Why are we so fascinated by them? The underlying reason reveals an outdated narrative. The current intrigue surrounding older women dating younger men isn't really about the ‘men.’ It's about our assumptions regarding beauty, desirability, and a woman's value as she ages. Discover why this relationship dynamic continues to challenge deeply held beliefs about love and worth. The Real Story Isn't About ‘Him’ Why Society Questions Her Value Desirability Doesn't Expire With Age “Why Reverse Age-Gap Relationships Are on the Rise”by Mark Travers Ph.D. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Blindsided Breakup: How to Stop the Pain and Finally Move Forward
It’s unfair. You didn’t deserve the breakup or the thoughtless behavior that came with it. Learn how shock, betrayal, and rumination keep you trapped, and discover how to close the wound, reclaim your peace, and move forward. Breakup Triage: Stop the emotional bleeding first Why shock and betrayal create rumination loops How to close the wound and move forward “Why Reverse Age-Gap Relationships Are on the Rise”by Mark Travers Ph.D. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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The Void: When You’ve Outgrown Your Old Life
You’re not lost, failing, or falling apart. You’re in The Void; the uncomfortable in-between stage where your old life no longer fits, but your new life hasn’t fully arrived. Here’s how to understand this powerful phase of transformation and trust where it’s leading you., Growth can feel lonely. The Void is the juncture between who you were and who you’re becoming. It’s the transit point between identities, relationships, lifestyles, and ways of thinking that no longer align with your growth. Though it feels isolating, this stage doesn’t indicate you’re lost. Better yet. You’re at the precipice of the next evolution of your life. Signs of Personal Evolution Why The Void Feels Empty Trusting The Process “Why Reverse Age-Gap Relationships Are on the Rise”by Mark Travers Ph.D. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Dumped Out of Nowhere—for Their Ex? This Explains Everything
Dumped for Their EX?! Getting dumped is horrible. But getting dumped out of nowhere—and for an ex—feels like the ultimate betrayal. Here’s how to understand what really happened, and why it has nothing to do with you, or your value. If your partner chose a lesser love then they’re more comfortable with abuse, than happiness. And for this, you should be grateful! Because that’s a deep-rooted issue that requires tremendous inner work to be corrected. Understanding Attachment Issues Trauma Bonding You’re Lucky To Be Free “Why Reverse Age-Gap Relationships Are on the Rise”by Mark Travers Ph.D. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Dating Younger Men? The Rules That Actually Make It Work
Dating a younger man? Know the rules. Dating younger men works beautifully when you know the rules. What makes it succeed, or quietly fall apart, isn’t the age. It’s your mindset and communication style that either make or break your connection. Be Fair. Don’t Compare. Differentiating Strength vs Control The Key is Communication “Why Reverse Age-Gap Relationships Are on the Rise”by Mark Travers Ph.D. Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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They Want You… Until They Have You: The Avoidant's Hot and Cold Trap
The avoidant craves you when you're distant but loses interest when you're available. Hot/cold. Push/pull. It will remain the same… until you do this: #DismissiveAvoidant #HotandCold The avoidant's attraction is fueled by longing, not love. It's easy to hope your absence has sparked their desire. But once you're back in their arms, their fear of engulfment triggers them to pull away. This cycle keeps them uncommitted, always seeking greener grass while leaving you questioning if the connection was ever real. The Avoidant's Push-Pull Dynamics Their Fear of Intimacy Ending Your Emotional Rollercoaster Work with Me: Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Here's What Obsession's Hiding
Obsession enables us to ignore red flags. We've locked onto the moment we felt desired and adored. Now, that moments gone. But we're still trapped in a loop of yearning...until we understand the Relevancy Principle. The Mental Snapshot That Hooked You Why We Ignore Red Flags Assessing Present Behavior- Relevancy Principle Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Get Back With Your Ex: Hope or Delusion?
Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here's how to get what you truly want… 1.Consider the past- positive or negative 2.Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3.Do they care to try again? Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Can You LOVE Someone Without Loving Yourself?
Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here's how to get what you truly want… 1.Consider the past- positive or negative 2.Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3.Do they care to try again? Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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How to let go (when you don't want to let go)
Struggling To Let Go? No one said letting go was easy, but here's how to enable (and assist) Life in moving you forward to find love again. Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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4 Reasons why dating has become so hard (and how you can fix it)
It's not just you. Everyone's confused, frustrated, and about to lose hope. Here are the 4 reasons why dating has become so hard (and what you can do about it). #datingadvice #BDB #baddatingbehavior #datinggames Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Dating Games: How to give up ‘game' (and move to real)
Games are seductive, and sadly, often effective. How do you give up game and move to ‘real?' Here's how to get the quality of partnership you crave: #datinggames #authenticity #datingadvice Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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New Relationships: Your Partner's ‘Ever-Present' Ex
You see merit in your new partner. BUT — their ‘ever-present' ex is way too close for comfort. Here's how to voice your concerns (and boundaries) with confidence: #Partner'sEx #boundaries Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Manifesting the love (and life) you desire
Want to learn the key to manifesting the love (and life) you desire? Learn how to activate the ‘mental equivalent.' #manifesting #mentalquivalent Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Breakups: Knowing It's Your Fault They Left
How do you handle the guilt and remorse of knowing that you were the one that caused the breakup? Here's how to deal with the aftermath of that knowledge and create a benefit: #breakups #guilt Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Do they love YOU (or the money and status)?
You've worked hard and it shows. How do you know the authenticity of a partner's ‘feelings' when there's notable money and status involved? My answer: #datingadvice #money #status Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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After the breakup (accepting they're gone)
Wondering how to have the closure you need to move on? Here's how to say what needs to be said and how to accept it's over: #breakups #closure #video #movingon Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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You're Finally Over Your Ex (then they reach out)
You've finally set yourself free from your ex. Then unexpectedly, they reach out. Is this a test from the Universe? Or hope for a second chance? My answers: #ex #breakups #testfromUniverse Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Can I trust again (after my narcissist)?
You barely survived the breakup with your narcissist. How do you heal and trust a future partner? Here's the key to your stability, confidence, and trust: #breakups #narcissist #trust Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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New Love: Hope vs. Red Flags
New love is intoxicating. But its early hopefulness can blind you into ignoring red flags. How will you know the thin line that divides hope from denial? Watch this: #newlove #redflags #video #denial Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Comparing new partners to your ex?
Do you find yourself comparing your current dates to your former mate? Do they pale in comparison? Or serve as a guide to what's good? Here's how to make it work to your benefit: #ex #breakups #comparetoex #datingadvice Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Why is ‘unattainable' so seductive?
The allure of the one we can't have is intensely compelling. But why? Why is unattainable more desirable than what's readily available? Here's the key to releasing yourself from this self-defeating loop: #unattainable #unavailable #avoidant Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Breakups: Looking to ‘them' for closure?
What happens when you're dumped, and your partner won't give you a concrete reason? Lack of closure can keep you in a loop of heartache. Here's the way out and back to wholeness: #closure #breakups Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Why they left (after you finally opened up to love)
You held back and protected your heart. Finally, you felt it was safe to let go…only to see your partner vanish. What happened? Here's the answer: #breakups #fallinginlove #holdingback Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Are you waiting on a ‘maybe?'
Has someone put you in a holding pattern? Before you commit to waiting on a ‘maybe,' ask yourself these questions: #maybe #friendzone #avoidant Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Something's wrong. Should I speak up?
You sense that something's wrong. Your partner is pulling away. You want to speak up but fear doing so. What if you look weak and needy? Here's the best approach to take: #pullingaway #speakingup #somethingswrong Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Breakups: The Dumper's Remorse
You were the one who initiated the breakup (in order to feel better). But now you feel worse (with sadness and guilt). This is the ‘dumper's remorse:' #breakups #dumpersremorse #guilt #video Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Law of Attraction: Attracting a partner/Re-attracting an ex
Want to use the Law of Attraction to call in a partner or re-ignite and ex? Here's the distinction between fantasizing and manifesting. #LOA #breakups #attraction Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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How to forgive yourself (for loving them)
First you were angry at your ex. Then, hurt. And resentful. Now, you're simmering in the uncomfortable realization it's not ‘about them.' Here's how to forgive yourself for loving them: #breakuprecovery #forgivingyourself Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Dating Games: The ‘turnaround' trick
Does your partner refuse to take responsibility for their actions? Do they become the ‘victim' and make you the ‘bad guy' for expressing yourself? Escape the ‘turnaround' trick by doing this: #datinggames #turnaround Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Valentine's Day: Strategy for Singles
Single this Valentine's Day? It's just one day — but it can create emotional havoc. Here are my top 3 tips for a positive mindset that allows you to flourish: #single #ValentinesDay Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Dating Games: The Emotional Opportunist:
Beware of the emotional opportunist. They're in and out of your life at will, using you as a safety net and ego boost. You're the backup plan that never gets off the back burner. What should you do? #emotionalopportunist #datinggames Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Breakup Recovery: Disillusion and Obsession
Your breakup has you churning over the decisions you made and the events that transpired. How can you set yourself free? Here's the key to relief, and the cure for disillusionment: #breakups #obsession Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Older Women/Younger Men — Why comparing him to older men is unfair
Comparing your young guy to older men isn't fair. Nor is it an accurate measure of his worth. Here's how to acknowledge age-gap differences and discover their benefit: #olderwomen #youngermen #comparison Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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How to (successfully) date an entrepreneur
Dating an entrepreneur is an art form. When the normal rules of dating don't apply to a work-obsessed partner, here's the way to gain emotional traction and priority status: #entrepreneur #startup #datingadvice Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Breakups: But… can't we be ‘friends?'
There's a cruel form of torture when an ex no longer wants us but wants a shoulder to lean on and our presence in their lives. Here's how to figure out the right choice for your ultimate happiness: #breakups #friendzone #ex Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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How do I accept the fact that it's over?
Are you struggling to accept that your relationship is over? Here's the key to accepting ‘what is,' while retaining your inner fortitude and positivity: #breakups Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Why don't we want the ones who want us?
Why is it that we don't want the person who wants us, but crave the one we can't quite get? Human nature can work against us until we come to this understanding: #attraction #chemistry #datingadvice #video Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Was our ‘connection' real? Or, was it just me?
How do we explain feeling a powerful connection… that ends up going nowhere? Was it real? And if so, why did it end? Here's what really happened: #connection #attraction #chemistry Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Accepting there's no “us” anymore
Your breakup has left a palpable void. Moving on and accepting it's over is especially hard since your partner has also been your 'person.' Here's how to honor what was, and open up to what can be: #datingadvice#relationshipexpert #relationshipadvice #breakups #divorcerecovery Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Incompatible on paper. But good in real life?
The two of you look bad on paper — but could you work out in real life? Here's how to discern deal breaker from the starting point of honest communication: #negotiation #opposites #dealbreakers #datingadvicen Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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How to let go of a love that never happened
Are you struggling to let go of a love that never happened? If memories of intense chemistry and hopeful dreams of a future together keep haunting you, watch this: #love #endings Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Breakups: Can't get over your ex?
Can't get over your ex? Here's how to unite your mind and heart to attain a new reality of inner peace: #ex #breakups Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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The ‘mixed message' breakup (is it real)?
A messy breakup with mixed messages is horrific to experience and impossible to understand. Is it a sick dating game? Or, does our ex want us back? Here's what's really happening: #breakups #mixedmessages Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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Do you take the blame for feeling hurt?
Your feelings are hurt. Are you to blame for being overly sensitive, or is it your partner's error? Here's how to discern the validity of an emotional reaction: #blame #overlysensitive #HSP Work with Me: Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache Audible Allowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.net YouTube: YouTube Channel Instagram: Instagram Profile Twitter: Twitter Profile Facebook: Facebook Page LinkedIn: LinkedIn Profile TikTok: TikTok Profile
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
SUSAN WINTER is a leading relationship expert and love coach who has helped over 6,500 people find, and keep, love. As a bestselling author, (Older Women/Younger Men, Allowing Magnificence, and Breakup Triage), Susan specializes in evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. She writes, speaks and coaches on dating issues, relationship challenges, and personal empowerment. Internationally recognized as a thought leader in her field, Susan's 1,250+ top tier media credits include: THE NEW YORK TIMES, THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW, THE TODAY SHOW, CNN HEADLINE NEWS, ABC EVENING NEWS, BBC NEWS, CNBC, TALKTV LONDON, ITV NEWS, FOX NEWS, COSMOPOLITAN MAGAZINE, MEN'S HEALTH, HARPER'S BAZAAR, PEOPLE, BUSINESS INSIDER, FORBES, FORTUNE MAGAZINE, NEW YORK MAGAZINE, THE LONDON TIMES, IRISH EXAMINER, EL MUNDO, BAHRAIN WOMAN, MUMBAI MIRROR, and the IRISH TIMES. In radio, Susan is a frequent guest on NPR, BBC, ABC, and CBS NEWS. Her podcast, The Susan Winter Show, can be heard on Spotify,
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