This is How You Prevent People From Using You.

Being used does not start when someone crosses your boundary - it starts when you never built one. Mensa breaks down the uncomfortable truth behind victim-playing, gaslighting, and why people keep pushing until you speak up.This episode is for anyone who feels drained by friendships, relationships, family dynamics, or business situations that keep overstepping the line. Mensa explains why standards come first, boundaries come second, and discipline is what keeps both from collapsing the moment things get uncomfortable.You’ll discover: How to spot the pattern of being used while the other person acts like the victim Why standards in finance, friendship, relationships, and business protect you before conflict starts The difference between healthy compromise and compromising your way into stupidity Mensa’s “skinny and fat friend” theory and the hidden dynamic it reveals in real life A simple step-by-step approach to building discipline without getting overwhelmed by the “mountain” ahead Mensa also shares how his book Standards and his coaching process are designed to help you build a stronger internal framework, whether you want to work through it on your own or with guidance. He closes with a practical nightly reflection habit that can help you understand what upsets you, what makes you happy, and what you’re actually learning about yourself.If you’re tired of repeating the same painful patterns and want a clearer way to protect your energy, this conversation gives you a direct framework to start with. Essential listening if you need better boundaries, more self-respect, and the discipline to hold your line.