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ShxtsNGigs
by MƐnsaNStasia
Thought-provoking Conversations, Very informative but Opinionated. M3nsa|Stasia (ShxtsNGigs) is everything society and Culture, bridging the gap between American and African culture and the lens from which each culture views the world. On patreon Exclusive contents are much more personal and behind the Scenes. Thanks for the support.
Episodes
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Your People Will Never See Your Worth
KJ shares the story of the boutique business his in-law pushed him and his wife out of, took everything from, and never paid for, and how that loss made him question his own worth. He breaks down why your value as a person was never tied to income or success, then turns to women who've built a...
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This is How You Prevent People From Using You.
Being used does not start when someone crosses your boundary - it starts when you never built one. Mensa breaks down the uncomfortable truth behind victim-playing, gaslighting, and why people keep pushing until you speak up.This episode is for anyone who feels drained by friendships…
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Victim Mindset & Bigger Weddings
Two Signs You're Setting Yourself Up to Fail. The bigger the wedding, the bigger the divorce — and after doing it twice, I'm telling you why that's not a coincidence. In this episode we get into it: the victim mindset excuse that's holding people back, a hard look at the politics nobody wants to...
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Im I Still Reacting
Episode: Am I Still Reacting? Mensa before this recording is considering the possibly restructuring the podcast and questioning whether reaction content still has a place in the show. Before making any final call, he dives into a few more viral clips — including a heated Ghanaian relationship...
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There Is Still Life Drama | End Of Year Episode
There Is Still Life Drama | End Of Year Episode
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Sarah Fontenot | Gender Roles, Money & Leadership
All right, welcome back to Conversations. I have a fun pack today. Literally, I think I have about 10 videos, maybe nine or maybe eight. I think it's about nine or 10. So, we have a lot to go through. If you are first time here, I will I would really appreciate it if you you can give this video a...
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Older Women Are The Problem ?
ARE MEN HAPPIER WHEN MARRIED WITH KIDS?ARE OLDER WOMEN ARE BITTER BECAUSE THEY RUN OUT OF OPTIONS ?When you know he can’t lead, don’t stay hoping to change him. In this video, KJ Mensah breaks down why dating without direction leads to chaos—and why both men and women lose focus once intimacy...
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Body Count Conversation Refuses To Disappear
The body count debate isn’t going anywhere in 2025 — but does it really matter in relationships? In this video, we break down the truth about modern dating, attention culture, and the “real man vs modern woman” arguments that keep dividing men and women.Here’s what we cover:🔥 Why body count…
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Things I Do Not Do In A Relationship
In this video, we break down modern relationship expectations—finances, social media, trust, independence, and partnership in 2025. From self-care expenses and location sharing to redefining what it means to support each other, discover the mindset shifts that make healthy relationships work....
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Single Woman Cries Not Finding Man | Parenting,Kids Have No Right
Single Woman Cries On TIKTOK over Not Finding A "good" Man, Anton Daniels Clashes Dr. Umar Over Parenting and Raising Kids. Does Kids Have choices or They only do the Bid of parents?TIMESTAMP00:00 Opener2:37 Single woman Cries, Can’t find a “good” man17:38 Anton vs Dr Umar
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Woman Demands Cash For Conversations
She said conversations aren’t free… should men pay just to talk to women? Let’s talk modern dating, standards, and expectations. On the other hand is the 25yr old single mother of 2 divorces analyzing her situation and how hard single mother life is for her...
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I Cant Stop Cheating On My Husband
Woman claims she has cheated in all of her relationships all the way to her current, pending divorce husband. After time in Therapy this is what she realized... On the other hand ANOTHER WIFE is leaving 20 yrs of marriage and KIDS just for this.. Join in this conversation. As KJ. Shares his...
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Can You Really Afford Sidechick
Don't Forget to Subscribe Like and Comment. TIMESTAMP 00:00 Intro 1:45 Defining SideChick | Can Ghanaians Afford SideChicks 27:16 Tafo -Ahwia PRAGIA Problems In this video, we dive into the intriguing world of sideChicks and hookup culture in Ghana, exploring how societal expectations,...
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I Married A SIMP
Should You Marry A single mother? Feels like a question of the decade in this media space. Here is another episode navigating Relationship Dynamics. In this episode, we dive into the complex dynamics of relationships, focusing on a scenario where a woman embarrasses her husband by labeling him a...
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Marriage Isn’t Worth It, PT II
This is not a new conversation, its all over the media. Joey and Stasia continues thier disagreement on the topic of marriage in this DNA. On this episode, the couple addressed all the benefits of getting married in the United States, and if its worth it. Enjoy another great episode, let the…
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Pop The Balloon Or Find A Baby Daddy
In this episode the couple reacts to an episode from pop the balloon addressing the baby daddy issues of modern relationships. This was the baby mama episode. Join in on another hilarious yet very educative episode
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Our Vow Renewal Review
A week After the event, the couple discusses the expectations they had and it really wend down. Join on another bonus episode
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Work Your Marriage Like A Business
Bridge the Gap in Your relationship roles. Most Couples end up in time just playing roles; a husband and a wife but not really friends. The modern idea of what marriage should be has played a major role in ensuring couples are not intentional with their plans but a feeling. On this episode...
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Marriage Isn’t Worth It, PT I
Redpill Argues Marriage isn't worth is anymore. This is an argument worth digging but the gist of it is what happens when one goes through divorce, especially in the western world. The couple discusses if its really worth marrying legally as their stand on marriage is obvious in itself as couple....
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Testimony Of A SideChick Feat. Lady Afya
Mensa||Stasia return after a long break to continue the conversation regarding SIDECHICKS, Yes, the one group we all seem to wonder their existence. In this episode they discuss the testimony of a sidechick, and her reasons for being a sidechick.What exactly happens in marriages to bring about…
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The Kids Ain't Mine || Reloaded
Timestamp 0:00 DNA testing 10:25: Is Therapy Necessary for Relationship, Could CONSTANT Communication exist as therapy for relationship17:00: Dating Helps Marriages? Or People just pretend 20:25: Can relationship Arguments that turn into Violence be prevented He DNA tested 4kids, as suggested by...
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Modern Relationships End Violently Feat. Lady Afya
It is no surprise to hear the untimely death of others due to misunderstanding and Or cheating in relationships. This is the new trend, and even the African Cultures are tapping into this violent acts. Here is the story of a Ghanaian that murdered wife for cheating. Join us on another episode as…
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Divorces N Shxts | Reloaded Feat. Lady Afya
Marriages aint Shxt, it's the new logo for the " redpill" community. How the redpill came about is a topic for another time. Its been back to back argument regarding the issue of marriage and if its even worth it. Whats your argument, what comes to mind when you think of the cause of divorces.…
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Married Men & SideChicks
Have you Wondered why some married men want side chicks or even why some women are ready to enjoy such relationships. Tune in to this reloaded episode for an amazing conversation between the couple. WHATSAPP: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va4L... PATREON…
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End That Relationship Feat. Lady Afya
There is a new norm; women just refuse proposals. Would You say the relationship is worth it 🔗 Full video: • The Cause of Increased Divorces | M3n... WHATSAPP: https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Va4L... PATREON: https://patreon.com/SSPM3NSA?utm_medi... 💎 Join: / @m3nsa_stasia 👕 Merch:...
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Why Modern Marriages Fail Feat. Lady Afya
Why Your marriage Will FailSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sincerely-stamens936/exclusive-content
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Weak Men Attributes
The long-awaited conversation Stasia has been wanting to have, and she came ready for it. We dig into wives, side chicks, and infidelity, a topic that's come up on previous episodes and keeps finding its way back. Plus: a Ghanaian man in Ohio shoots his wife after she threatened to divorce him....
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Side Chicks | Episode 25
Mensa and Stasia discusses the issue of sidekicks | Marriages
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Episode 24 | Your Womb Is Not enough
Your Womb Is Not enough, Maybe A Bus Driver Is Average. In this episode Joey and Stasia discussed the previous argument about the man with 7 baby mamas and whose fault it really is. If you are on media recently you have heard of the steve Harvey's comment on what a woman brings to the table. per...
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Episode 23 | What's Your Role in Relationship
Jonathan Majors Lost It all, Yet What is a Woman's Role in Relationship Join Tux Time @tuxtime Watch Video on Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfEsz1Ep-0zuBBohpuKN_LQ @EthanKleinH3 Argues @sebb Ghiorghiu on The Role of A Woman And Dressing Provocatively! Ethan Klein Argues Sebastian...
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Episode 22 | The American Debates
Subscribe to YouTube for Short Clips. Thanks for Your Support. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfEsz1Ep-0zuBBohpuKN_LQ The issue of gun violence, and mass sh**tings is not on the rise but has been here with us. In this episode, we discussed some of the political, intense issues like mass…
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Episode 21 | Mass Shootings, Gun Rights & Control
Timestamp 00:00 Intro 01:00 Mass Shooting In the United states 07:51 School Shootings, Home Schooling as an option (For Your Kids) 11:30 Gun Right | Control 22:56 The Century 16 Shooting and its Effects. 30:00 Crime Rate in Aurora 31:30 Tipping regulations Watch YouTube…
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Episode 20 | She Killed the Husband for Cheating Featuring Carmen
In this episode, featuring the guest @cmilla2013 we discussed, who pays the most bill in relationships, the feminism ideology, cheating, and how women get passes from society. Regarding cheating, a lady Killed her Husband for Cheating live on Facebook. 👉Donate 💸 RedCircle:...
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Episode 19 | What Do Women Bring To The Table Besides Sex
If you are reading this then you are familiar with the back-and-forth conversation about what you bring to the table and who does what. In this Episode Joey|Stasia discussed this topic addressing a comment made by Shatta MItchy to her followers. Support this podcast at —...
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Feminism Vs RedPill
In this episode, STaMens Discussed one of the most popular and ongoing discussions in the black community. The " fight" between feminists and Redpills. A Man with 7 baby Mamas, refusing to parent since he made his plans known from the beginning of intimacy Before that RIP to Costa Titch. Enjoy…
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Am I The Asshole
StaMens began the episode by discussing the changes they intend to bring to sincerely, stamens, and the guest plan for upcoming episodes. MARRIAGE Reviewing a video by @Ametaphor, Joey, and Stasia discussed their thoughts on marriage and what it should be like AM I THE ASSHOLE Stamens reviewed a...
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Boss Bitches & The News
StaMens started episode with discussion on the two Ohio State students that were accused of Rape. The media is still on "believe all women" Is that really helping the society or we're just watering down the real effect of evil in society. The police shot another Black man, well again! What about...
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Post Vacation
Well the relationship Preacher Derrick Jaxn is caught cheating again but who cares, STaMens didn’t touch on his topic for long but definitely addressed their thoughts on his stand on relationships and Cheating. After the long break joey returned from a month’s Vacation in ghana to tell all about...
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Pay My Bills
Joey and Stasia discussed Marriage in Europe and how some men are taking advantage of the system. Obviously, people marry for different reasons. Yet, have you considered some of the conditions some women require of men? Don't miss out on this Bonus episode reflecting our flaws or she's…
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And He Cheated
Brief thoughts on Derrick Jaxn (from Episode 12) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sincerely-stamens936/exclusive-content
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Re-Release | What About Cheating
Consider Subscribing to support creators of all STAMENS+ Podcasts The episode began with feedback and attack from Christians regarding the previous episode. Yes, apparently, they claim we cant obtain "the kingdom" Neyo's new Album| Compared to His Old projects. While we're on Neyo, what's up with...
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MarriSex
Let's talk about Marriage|Sex. Not the craziest, Marrisex PT 2 will go even deeper. STaMens started the episode discussing why marriage can be an issue for a very educated female. Marrisex is just the intro, continues to open door for even deeper marriage conversations. Follow the show wherever…
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Our Flaws Or She’s Delusional
Episode started with the couple discussing their previous week, kids and their lack of good Sleep. Initial music by Klu. https://music.apple.com/us/album/promise/1648245526?i=1648245545 Halloween: 4:15 Stasia|Mensah didn’t get the kids candy, not deliberate and not because they don't celebrate...
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Let’s Get Personal Feat. Lady Afya
Episode begun with the discussion on long break from the first season and the on going parties within the Ghanaian communities since the beginning of the year.Episode Segments Flooding 3:02 *Newly purchased Home *Sewage flood in the Home, how bad can it be *Modern home insurance *Potential Sue....
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Irv Gotti
Consider Subscribing to support creators of all STAMENS+ PodcastsIn this Episode STaMens Started with the new series on apple TV, The surface; a great TV show we encourage yall to check out. Quickly the couple jumped on to the on going Irv Gotti vs Ashanti and his documentary. Not forgetting the...
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What about Cheating Feat. Lady Afya
Consider Subscribing to support creators of all STAMENS+ PodcastsThe episode began with feedback and attack from Christians regarding the previous episode. Yes, apparently, they claim we cant obtain "the kingdom" Neyo's new Album| Compared to His Old projects. While we're on Neyo, what's up with...
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Kevin Samuels Feat. Jay Tendo
Let's talk Kevin Samuels and why women hated him. Anything you think he could have done different? The believe all women World Vs Jonny Depp Case..Kid threatens to accuse father's friend of assault. What about Standards, Double standards? Lets talk about it but before that, does celibacy attract...
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The Kids Ain’t Mine
Episode is available on Spotify As Video!!Episode begun with conversation from previous Episode discussing the TV series, P Valley together with other Tv shows. STaMens discussed a Father and the unexpected DNA results for his 5 kids. As usual, the topic of relationship, Divorce, dating process…
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Its a Will Smith Day
Episode is available on Spotify As Video!! STaMens started with responses and feedback from the previously recorded episodes. The G.O.AT Will Smith finally released his apology to Chris after 3 months and as expected, we discussed few things about it. Will marriage being in question, The issue of...
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Still In The Bedroom
STaMens Started the episode with Stamens request for Joey to Start Dinner while she is away locking their sons hair. Discussed Eds Dredlocks and how kids love everything they see On this episode, they discussed the previous weekend and what happened. Mrz drinking Hennessy for the first time //...
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Thought-provoking Conversations, Very informative but Opinionated. M3nsa|Stasia (ShxtsNGigs) is everything society and Culture, bridging the gap between American and African culture and the lens from which each culture views the world. On patreon Exclusive contents are much more personal and behind the Scenes. Thanks for the support.
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Thought-provoking Conversations, Very informative but Opinionated. M3nsa|Stasia (ShxtsNGigs) is everything society and Culture, bridging the gap between American and African culture and the lens from which each culture views the world. On patreon Exclusive contents are much more personal and behind...
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