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EPISODE · May 20, 2026 · 12 MIN

This Is Your One and Only Sex Life. There Are No Do-Overs.

from Sex in Real Life with Stacey Herrera · host Stacey Herrera

Long-term relationships have a way of settling into routine. Same person, same bed, same sex, possibly on the same night of the week. In this episode, Stacey gets into why the sexual do-over is a myth. And how you could be overlooking the eroticism in the sex you're already having.  Resources mentioned: Mono no aware - Japanese concept  Translation: "the pathos of things" In other words… the bittersweet realization that everything is transient.     🗳️ Suggest a topic for the show: https://bit.ly/sexirlpod-suggestion-box 💌 Subscribe to the Sex IRL Substack: https://www.sexinreallife.com/ Ready to Transform Your Intimate Conversations? Get the free workbook 📖 How Do I Tell Them I Have Herpes? A guide to having "the talk" without losing your cool (or your dignity). https://staceyherrera.com/herpesbook 📖 How to Give Amazing Head: 10 Easy Tips to Blow His Mind https://staceyherrera.com/how-to-give-amazing-head/

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