Three Marriages, Three Divorces: What I’ve Learned

A personal look at what three marriages and three divorces taught me about love, responsibility, and choosing peace over conflict.I’ve been married three times… and divorced three times.That’s not something I say lightly—and definitely not something I got right. But it is something I’ve learned a lot from.In this episode, I’m sharing a more personal perspective on divorce. Not from a place of having done it perfectly, and not as advice that applies to every situation—but simply what I’ve learned from living it.I talk through each of my marriages and what ultimately led to those relationships ending, including:getting married young and realizing it wasn’t the right fittrying to become someone I wasn’t in order to make a marriage workstaying too long in a relationship that wasn’t healthyand the moment I realized I couldn’t let the next 10 years look like the last 10But more than anything, this episode is about how I chose to walk through divorce.Why I didn’t want it to be a fight.Why I chose flexibility over being right.And how that decision has shaped my relationships with my exes—especially as co-parents.I also talk about what it looks like now:navigating life with shared historyco-parenting through hard seasonsand in one case, maintaining a genuine friendship that still exists todayThis isn’t a conversation about whether divorce is right or wrong.And it’s not a one-size-fits-all approach.It’s just an honest reflection on love, responsibility, growth… and what it means to move forward without destroying each other in the process. WebsitePiece of Work, a MemoirInstagramFacebookTikTok