to put it simply elon, no one wants to hear about shivon. they did want to hear about grimes. or at least i am part of the group that would have rather have heard about grimes in the situation. the only other way it wouldnt have mattered to me, is if yo

to put it simply elon, no one wants to hear about shivon. they did want to hear about grimes. or at least i am part of the group that would have rather have heard about grimes in the situation.   the only other way it wouldnt have mattered to me, is if you had left me alone, and announced you had a relationship with shivon and were transparent about it  so it didnt look like shivon was secretly attacking people or doing things .  if you had just said , "this is my girlfriend"  people would have accepted it and just let you two be and do things together and then people could have adjusted properly to it.   this part, about your need to reveal shivon, is difficult to explain.   its kind of like being catfished, like you thought things were one way, then at the very end someone throws something much worse at you. i am telling you that is what i thought before. i think things are different now.  grimes may have moved on but for some reason i stayed in the picture.  she doesnt have to like me. but i left the situation in 2021 kind of out of respect for grimes. that is what i am saying it is not easy to explain. because these things happened a long time ago. but because i stayed in the picture for some reason. i guess longer than grimes did. even though i thought everyone had moved on until i found out what i found out in 2024. to me, it looked like everyone had moved on.