Transmuting S*** into Gold with Sureya Leonara, Holsitic Sex & Relationship Coach

Julian talks with Sureya, a holsitic sex and relationship coach Learn more about Sureya at www.sureyaleonara.com Instagram: @sureya_leonara Discount code for listeners: STATEOFMIND for 15% off the course called 'the Art of Transmutation' starting Nov 13 Partial List of Topics (approximate times): 5:44 Conversation with Sureya begins Sureya introduces herself as a holistic sex and relationship coach and shares what she means by holistic and how sex and relationships connect with so many areas of life How a non-dual perspective can help make sense of the many different healing and meditative and spiritual modalities How becoming debilitatingly sick with Lyme disease and a Cohn infection and other health problems eventually lead to a transformation for Sureya to become more empowered and to stop being in a victim mentality Getting out of victim mentality How to fully feel and face the challenges of life, without bypassing and also without staying in a victim mentality The illusion of 'free will' and how that does not contradict taking responsibility How Sureya was in a very toxic relationship that felt parasitic and how she found the strength to leave that 20:20 - a wise older friend saying to her 'You are responsible for everything that is happening in your life right now" 22:45 - how sometimes ending a relationship is the best thing for all involved 24:25 - role of addictions can play in relationships, for both the one in the caretaker role and the one who seems in need of saving 28:33 - Sureya's new course on the Art of Transmutation 29:54 Finding your sovereign truth 31:54 The Trauma and Fear of being Ostracized and kicked out of a group 33:25 - How Sureya works with almost all her clients on people pleasing and becoming authentic 34:33 - How Sureya was raised to be polite and people pleasing and how she used to be so shy 37:15 Importance of connecting as humans even when you believe different thigs or have different politics and view points 38:00 Creating good boundaries - and how there is an energetic component to it 40:00 - Story from the life of the historical Buddha of how he chose not to accept the 'gift' of anger after a man spat on his face. 44:00 - how to channel anger in a good way 45:00 Have people tried to "cancel" Sureya ? A State of Mind Podcast: www.astateofmindpodcast.com A State of Mind Counseling: www.astateofmindcounseling.org Support the show: www.patreon.com/astateofmind