Two Therapists in Bed: Can You Really Make a Marriage Bulletproof?

In this episode, John and Vanessa dive into one of their most personal conversations yet: Can you make a marriage bulletproof? What starts with a casual coffee shop chat about Costa Rica being a place where marriages “come to die” spirals into a raw, honest discussion about trust, romance, fear, and what truly keeps a relationship alive. They debate: Why moving to “paradise” can magnify relationship cracks. The difference between trusting the container of marriage vs. trusting the love itself. Realist vs. romantic mindsets in marriage and how they collide. Vulnerability, attachment styles, and what it means to truly choose someone. If you’ve ever wondered whether your relationship could survive the hardest tests or if bulletproof love even exists - this episode is for you. John’s SubStack HERE Order John's new book, Break Up. On Purpose,⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about John⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices