EPISODE · Feb 26, 2026 · 15 MIN
Understanding Disappointment: Neuroscience & Resilience
from Real Over Ideal
Have you ever felt the sting of a disappointment? Welcome to being a human being.In this episode of Real Over Ideal- Vanessa Gorelkin talks about the brain science of disappointment and how to manage it in your own life. She addresses a listener’s very real question and encourages listeners in their own reframe of past experiences that didn’t go as planned.Disappointment is a neurological event that affects our brain and body. In this episode, we explore how disappointment works biologically, how to reframe it, and practical strategies to recover and grow from setbacks.Key TopicsThe science behind disappointment: brain activity and physical painWhy disappointment is a normal biological response, not a character flawTechniques to shorten the emotional "half-life" of disappointmentPracticing emotional duality: holding two truths at onceReclaiming agency by focusing on next steps, not outcomesBuilding perspective through reflection on past recoveriesThe importance of self-respect in resilience and moving forwardIf you love practical solutions that are evidence based and delivered in language that’s down to Earth and approachable- this is the episode to try.Click here to get in touch Thanks for listening!Please share the show with anyone who may enjoy it. We'd love it if you'd leave us a 5 star review wherever you're listening- it helps listeners find the show and we read every review.If you'd like to submit an "Untangle This" question, a comment, or an episode idea-- Email us:[email protected] is available to consult professionally with individual clients. If you'd like to work with Vanessa , reach out here:https://vanessagorelkin.com/contact-us#12398ed6-3711-4e15-ae41-4711059fd6abIf you'd like to read about Vanessa's background, treatment perspective and techniques, or other handy information about her practice, check out her Psychology Today profile here:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/vanessa-gorelkin-scottsdale-az/809467
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Have you ever felt the sting of a disappointment? Welcome to being a human being. In this episode of Real Over Ideal- Vanessa Gorelkin talks about the brain science of disappointment and how to manage it in your own life. She addresses a listener’s very real question and encourages listeners in their own reframe of past experiences that didn’t go as planned. Disappointment is a neurological event that affects our brain and body. In this episode, we explore how disappointment works biologicall...
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