Understanding Perseveration in FASD with Tami Eller

In this episode of Living with FASD, host Patti and guest Tami Eller discuss the complexities of living with Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder (FASD), focusing on the concept of perseveration, which refers to the tendency to get stuck on certain thoughts or activities. They explore the impact of privilege, trauma, and misconceptions surrounding FASD, emphasizing the importance of caregiver support and emotional regulation. The conversation highlights strategies for managing perseveration, the significance of closure, and the need for radical acceptance in navigating the challenges of neurodiversity. Tami shares her personal experiences and insights as a clinician working with youth affected by FASD, advocating for understanding and support within families and communities.TakeawaysPerseveration is a common challenge for individuals with FASD.Closure is essential for individuals to move on from tasks.Privilege and trauma significantly impact outcomes for those with FASD.Misconceptions about FASD can lead to emotional distress.Caregivers play a crucial role in managing perseveration.Radical acceptance helps in coping with FASD challenges.Assertive communication is vital for expressing needs.Planning ahead can minimize instances of perseveration.Understanding neurodiversity is key to effective support.Emotional regulation is important for both caregivers and individuals.As always, please remember to like, share, and follow the Living with FASD podcast to help spread awareness and understanding.If you would like to reach Patti, you can email her at [email protected]. Visit her website at www.patriciakasper.com to learn more about her coaching and professional development training services, or visit ttps://calendly.com/kaspertrainingandcoaching/consultation to schedule a complimentary call.If you would like to pick up a copy of Patti’s book, Sip by Sip: Candid Conversations with Adults Living with FASD, visit www.books.by/yourfasdcoach or Amazon. (Both print on demand, but due to lower overhead costs, books.by is able to pay its authors a few more dollars in royalties.)Chapters00:00 Introduction to FASD and Guest Background03:11 Understanding Perseveration and Its Impact05:54 The Role of Privilege and Support in FASD08:51 The Misconceptions of FASD and Intelligence12:01 Navigating Emotional Responses and Expectations14:52 Perseveration: Challenges and Strategies17:56 The Importance of Closure in Perseveration20:59 Perseveration in Arguments and Family Dynamics24:00 Reframing Perseveration as a Strength26:52 Conclusion: Managing Perseveration for Positive Outcomes28:36 The Power of Tenacity and Acceptance30:01 Managing Mental Load in Caregiving32:51 Learning Through Repetition and Support33:42 Understanding Neurodiversity and Personal Experience40:11 Navigating ADHD and Autism in Neurodiversity45:23 Radical Acceptance and Self-Regulation in Caregiving48:24 Assertive Communication in Relationships