Unfiltered but Not Unkind: Hard Truths About Swinger Etiquette & Communication

Unfiltered but Not Unkind is one of those episodes that needed to happen. In this raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation, Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on the lifestyle behaviors we all quietly side-eye… but rarely say out loud. This isn't a call-out episode. There's no rage, no dunking, and definitely no drama farming. Instead, it's thoughtful honesty, humor, and real talk about swinger etiquette, communication breakdowns, confidence versus self-awareness, and why "just communicate more" is terrible advice when no one explains how. We talk openly about: The difference between confidence and lack of self-awareness (and why overconfidence kills attraction) Why hypersexual behavior shuts doors faster than it opens Oversharing explicit content in spaces that didn't consent to that energy Treating every interaction like a sexual audition (and why that's a turnoff) The harm caused by "Google it" culture instead of real guidance Jealousy as a signal, not a personal failure Inclusive language without inclusive behavior Why your relationship should always come before the lifestyle We also get deeply personal—sharing moments from our own relationship where communication failed, jealousy showed up, and growth was uncomfortable but necessary. From stopping polyamory to rebuilding emotional security, this episode is a reminder that honesty and kindness can coexist—and that loving the lifestyle doesn't mean pretending it's perfect. If you've ever left a party thinking, "I don't want to sound judgy, but…" — this episode is for you. Resources & Links: Website, episodes, blogs, merch & events: www.beyond-monogamy.com Beyond Monogamy Confessional (100% anonymous) Streaming on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM Central Pris's Birthday Party — March 14th at 9 PM at Club Eden San Antonio Grab your headphones, pour a drink, and get comfy—this one hits different.