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Unlearning People Pleasing Behavior [A Summer of Encores]

An episode of the Shades of Strong® Podcast | From “Strong Black Woman” to Supported Black Woman podcast, hosted by Shirl | Shaddes of Strong, titled "Unlearning People Pleasing Behavior [A Summer of Encores]" was published on July 4, 2023 and runs 37 minutes.

July 4, 2023 ·37m · Shades of Strong® Podcast | From “Strong Black Woman” to Supported Black Woman

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My strong is knowing what I bring to the table.

Unlearning people pleasing behavior is challenging, not only because it’s a part of the Black female’s social fabric, but also because as Black women often existing in predominantly white spaces, pleasing others first is [undoubtedly] a survival mechanism. Hello code switching and shape shifting!

The only way to unlearn what’s been embedded in you is to love yourself the way you love others and to know with certainty what you’re worth and what you bring to the table in whatever room you’re in.

Tap in to this week’s encore episode to hear how we’re taking steps everyday to say eff you to the expectations of whiteness and yes to pleasing ourselves even when it makes others uncomfortable.



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