Unlearning to Remember with Klara Hascakova

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear the full conversation, visit keelysemler.substack.com.This week’s guest is Klara Hascakova, an Oxford educated systems designer whose work helps women reimagine the structures of their lives so they can live, lead, and create from a place of inner truth.I first encountered Klara through her appearance on the podcast In My Non-Expert Opinion with Chelsea Riffe. What initially drew me in was the way she spoke with humor and openness about her approach to “gamifying” life. At first, I wasn’t sure what to make of it. The world feels so heavy, why would we turn it into a game? But something in her tone felt like a gentle invitation. Perhaps, I thought, we are somehow capable holding complexity while still making room in our lives for creativity and play. Given how emotionally heavy my work in reproductive health and doula care can be, her perspective felt like a refreshing palette cleanser, something that brought a sense of lightness and clarity.I reached out to Klara, curious to learn more about who she is and what she offers and discovered that she was in the final months of her first pregnancy. It felt kismet that we were able to record this conversation while she stood at the threshold of motherhood.We explore the ways in which our cultural systems, especially those related to health, productivity, and identity, often overlook the needs, rhythms, and realities of women. While this can be disheartening, Klara offers an imaginative path forward: one in which we use intuition and play to re-design the ways we care for ourselves and one another. Her work gently asks: What would it look like to build systems that nourish rather than deplete, ones that support wholeness rather than demand performance?This conversation is for anyone seeking a more humane and liberated way of being, especially those who live and work within systems not built with them in mind.This podcast is only made possible by the support of this community. Please show you support by becoming paid subscriber at keelysemler.substack.com.3:28 Not fitting within systems4:51 Inner work to counteract external harmful systems6:38 Pregnancy as a transformation into the sensual feminine8:26 The duality of the “mother” archetype10:11 Unlearning myths and allowing for unpredictable experiences12:18 Name patterns, numerology, sounds, and our energetic identities22:53 Numbers, integration, and energetic maintenance work29:41 How to be powerful and loving in systems that don’t love30:30 Intuitive knowing and self-understanding through name patterns32:11 We need connection, not self-fixing and technology36:15 Shedding inherited roles & family systemsPaid Extended Interview (Behind Closed Doors, our subscriber community) includes:40:27 Money name patterns & wealth beyond money41:54 Pleasure and presence in pregnancy and motherhood47:03 Perceiving ourselves as the magical beings we really areMOTHERLANDS: Online Education Program20% off code MOTHERLANDSPODConnect with Klara & Book a SessionFollow our Host, Keely SemlerFollow The Motherlands PodcastYour support keeps The Motherlands alive. Paid subscriptions help me to keep doing this work full-time, offering real support to women through life’s biggest moments.Can’t subscribe right now? You can still help…– Leave a review on Apple Podcasts– Subscribe to Motherlands on Substack– Follow us on YouTube– Share an episode with a friendIf your brand aligns with empowering women, let’s collaborate! Reach out at [email protected]. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit keelysemler.substack.com/subscribe