Unpausing Your Marriage: Love, Disconnection and Finding Your Way Back to "We" with Dr. Lee Baucom

A real conversation on connection, disconnection, and the quiet habits that either build or break a relationshipIn this episode of Piece of Work, Danielle sits down with marriage coach, author, and host of the Save the Marriage and Thriveology podcasts, Dr. Lee Baucom, for a conversation that feels less like an interview and more like two people trying to make sense of something we all wrestle with—love, connection, and what happens when it starts to slip.If you’ve ever wondered why some relationships fall apart while others find their way back, this one goes deeper than surface-level advice. They talk honestly about the “pause button” so many couples hit without realizing it, the difference between fitting in and truly belonging, and why communication isn’t always the real problem.They unpack what it actually looks like to be a “we” without losing yourself, how small moments of connection matter more than grand gestures, and why waiting for things to magically get better rarely works.There’s also space for nuance here—because Danielle doesn’t believe every marriage can or should be saved. She shares parts of her own experience and reflects on that tension of still believing in marriage while also knowing when something isn’t right.Dr. Lee has spent over two decades helping individuals and couples break through the patterns that keep them stuck, and his work is grounded in simple, practical ways to rebuild connection.You can learn more about his work at: unpauseyourmarriage.com savethemarriage.comThis episode is for anyone who:Feels disconnected in their relationshipKeeps having the same conversations on repeatWonders if there’s still something worth rebuildingOr just wants a more honest, grounded perspective on love and commitmentIt’s not about perfection or quick fixes. It’s about understanding what’s really happening underneath—and deciding what you want to do with that.Listen in and ask yourself:Are we connected… or just going through the motions? WebsitePiece of Work, a MemoirInstagramFacebookTikTok