Waarom we stiekem allemaal een beetje houden van kink

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Volgens het boek Existential Kink van Carolyn Elliott hebben we allemaal (symbolisch gezien) een ‘kink’: we creëren situaties in ons leven die stiekem pijnlijk én aantrekkelijk zijn.Het boek maakt onze schaduw zichtbaar: het deel van ons dat onbewust ‘geniet’ van situaties die ons bewuste ego verafschuwt. Waarom trekken we bijvoorbeeld steeds opnieuw een emotioneel onbeschikbare partner aan? Waarom blijven we hangen in een job waar we eigenlijk niet gelukkig van worden?We gaan in op de dieperliggende psychologische redenen waarom we pijnlijke situaties aantrekken. Je ontdekt de waarde van dit patroon, én leert hoe je het kunt doorbreken.

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This episode was published on February 19, 2026.

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Volgens het boek Existential Kink van Carolyn Elliott hebben we allemaal (symbolisch gezien) een ‘kink’: we creëren situaties in ons leven die stiekem pijnlijk én aantrekkelijk zijn.Het boek maakt onze schaduw zichtbaar: het deel van ons dat...

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