Wandering Aimlessly: Jealousy, Bi Curiosity & the ENM Newbie Survival Guide

Feeling lost in the lifestyle? You're not alone — and this Quickie is proof. This week, Adam and Pris crack open a confessional from a listener known as Wandering Aimlessly — a woman new to the lifestyle whose husband just changed the entire playbook on her. She came in wanting a bi experience while he watched. Now he wants to play with other women. Cue the jealousy spiral she didn't see coming. In this episode: Why jealousy is NOT the villain — and how to actually navigate it The communication you absolutely must have BEFORE your first experience How to approach women when you're brand new and bi-curious The "kid in a candy store" guy mentality and how the lifestyle humbles men fast Newbie + newbie pairings: Adam and Pris hilariously disagree on this one Predatory couples — what they look like and how to spot them before they spot you Whether you're brand new or a few steps in, this one is for every couple who has ever felt completely lost and too scared to ask the questions they really need answered. You're not wandering aimlessly. You're just getting started. 🌐 Home Base: www.beyond-monogamy.com Drop your 100% anonymous confessional, browse full episodes, quickies, merch, video clips, and our event tab. 📺 Catch Us LIVE: fullswapradio.com Every Thursday at 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central alongside a killer lineup of podcasters in the adult space. 🎟️ EVENTS: June 20 — Club Eden | San Antonio, TX Adam & Pris are live and in person. Come find us. Membership required — all details at beyond-monogamy.com. February 19–21, 2027 — Crazy Winter Nights | Kansas City, MO This will sell out. Use code BEYOMONO at fullswapradio.com and grab your tickets early. 💼 SPONSOR: Alvarez & Co. Tax preparation and bookkeeping — yes, run by Adam and Pris. We contain multitudes. Mention you're a listener for a discount. We've seen things. We will not judge. If you're getting anything out of this show, hit follow, subscribe, and drop a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Share this episode with somebody who needs it. Costs you nothing. Means everything to us.