Wanting vs Committed

-       Do you really want to or is there a part of you that isn’t willing to let it go yet?-       Choosing to do this on purpose.-       Not waiting until you never look at porn to have the confidence to be a free person-       Commitment vs wanting – if you want something that doesn’t mean you will be able to get it.-       To want is to desire or wish for something – there is no action required – it is passive-       Wanting is really easy – all you have to do is think “I want this”-       There is no risk involved.  -       It doesn’t require anything of us.-       Saying “I want to stop looking at porn” isn’t going to get it done-       It increases desire without any positive results – which can create a negative result in that you think you are doing something without results – -       -       When we think we  are doing something without results we are creating failures-       This is proof in our heads that we are failing. -       -       When we want something but aren’t doing anything to get it we are creating a gap that our brain tells us is insurmountable. -       -       When we are committed we promise to do something. -       Have you ever said to someone, “I’m going to get this done”.  Whether is was, going into a certain profession or building something that you had no experience doing?-       As you go through that process, in your mind, you never waver.-       -       You know it is going to happen no matter what. -       -       That is committed. -       -       Action is required – until you get to the place you want to be.-        -       You aren’t waiting for it to happen before you believe in it. -       -       Being committed is uncomfortable and challenging. -       -       It also gets results-       -       You will have to do things differently and think about circumstances differently-       You have to see the world differently than you do now to make that thing happen-       A really simple example of this in my life has been becoming a podcaster. -       I had no idea how to podcast 6 months ago. -       It wasn’t even on my radar. -       Then I wanted to be a podcaster because I thought it would be a great way to get the message out that there is help and there is a way forward for people who...