We're All Just Walking Each Other Home

On this episode of Needed To Hear That, Chaz and Chris dive into the fear, guilt, and shame that can come with “starting over.” What begins as a conversation about meditation and mindfulness slowly unfolds into something much deeper — why people struggle to return to the things that once helped them feel whole.Using the concept of the “abstinence violation effect,” the conversation explores the all-or-nothing mindset that shows up in recovery, dieting, fitness, therapy, spirituality, and everyday life. They unpack the dangerous belief that one mistake erases all progress, and why so many people feel like they’ve lost the right to come back after falling off track. Along the way, they discuss relapse, self-compassion, New Year’s resolutions, gym culture, therapy, meditation, addiction recovery, and the quiet fear of being judged when trying again.The episode also weaves through Buddhist teachings, Christian spirituality, the story of the prodigal son, the Buddhist parable of the destitute child, and the idea that maybe “home” is something we’re all searching for in one way or another. Funny, thoughtful, deeply human, and emotionally honest — this conversation is a reminder that slipping backwards doesn’t erase the work you’ve already done.You can find the article that Chaz referenced in the episode here: https://southshorerecovery.com/abstinence-violation-effect/