What Does It Actually Mean to Choose Yourself in Relationships?

Send us Fan MailWe hear “choose yourself” everywhere — but what does that really mean when you’re in a relationship you’re trying to make work?In this episode, I share how I came to the painful realization that I was abandoning myself in the name of love. By sacrificing my wants, needs, and voice to maintain connection, I was unintentionally teaching myself that my inner truth didn’t matter.After going no contact and confronting deep-rooted childhood abandonment wounds, I reached a breaking point where “enough” finally meant enough. From that space, I began the work of choosing myself unapologetically — without buying into the narrative that honoring my needs makes me selfish, difficult, or unlovable.I also guide listeners through a powerful, deployable exercise that helped me access inner wisdom by gathering different timelines of myself — allowing clarity, self-trust, and grounded decision-making to emerge.This episode is an invitation to reclaim your voice, stop self-abandonment, and learn how to choose yourself without guilt — so your relationships can be rooted in truth rather than sacrifice.Support the showExperience more infinite love(will include daily affirmations, new episode alerts, giveaways, video podcasts, personal interactions and more!)TelegramGet in tune with more of my gifts and knowledge!(includes nervous system healing music featured in each episode, poetry book, my socials and how to personally get in touch with me for mentorship)InfiniteinLove.comOur New Youtube Infinite love ChannelSupport the show