What Does It Take to Build a Thriving Marriage Without Losing Yourself with Monica Tanner

Marriage, relationships, communication, mindset shifts, intuition, personal growth, entrepreneurship, family, becoming.In this heartfelt episode of The Journey of Becoming, Karrie Mitten sits down with Monica Tanner, founder of Secrets of Happily Ever After and host of the podcast by the same name, to explore what it really takes to create lasting connection without sacrificing your dreams, identity, or calling.Monica shares her personal journey from studying marriage and family systems to pivoting into relationship coaching after realizing the traditional path was not aligned for her. Through motherhood, marriage challenges, and deep self reflection, she followed her intuition and built a thriving coaching practice that helps couples move beyond resentment, roommate syndrome, and silent disconnection.Together, Karrie and Monica discuss how fear, guilt, and outdated patterns can quietly shape both relationships and careers, especially for women who feel called to more. This conversation highlights the importance of communication, emotional awareness, and relational skills that allow both partners to grow individually while building a strong foundation together.What you will learnWhy pivoting is not quitting but listening to your intuitionHow fear and self doubt show up as protective patterns in relationshipsThe difference between adaptive childhood behaviors and conscious adult choicesWhy relational skills are essential for entrepreneurs and high achieving womenHow to pursue your dreams without damaging your marriage or familyWhat it takes to create buy in, support, and shared vision at homeWhy becoming is a lifelong process that evolves through every seasonIf you are navigating marriage, career growth, or the tension between family and personal ambition, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and practical insight to help you move forward with confidence and connection.Connect with MonicaLearn more about her coaching, podcast, and upcoming book at monicatanner.comFollow her on Instagram at @monitalksmarriageExplore her new book at badmarriageadvice.comConnect with KarrieLearn more about The Journey of Becoming and explore executive and personal transformation at UpLevelYourLifeConsulting.comIf this episode resonates, share it with someone who wants a thriving relationship while still honoring their dreams, because becoming your fullest self is better when you do not have to do it alone.