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EPISODE · Mar 16, 2026 · 20 MIN

What Foster Adoption Taught Me About Resilience, Family, and the Child Welfare System

from THE MAKING OF ME · host Aro Benaiah Kehinde

If you've ever considered adoption, especially through the foster system, this candid conversation with Lane Igoudin, author and adoptive parent, will inspire and inform you. Lane shares their three-year journey to keep their family together, revealing the unique challenges of navigating the foster system, building a family as an LGBTQ parent, and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with intentional parenting. From the lack of resources for new foster parents, to the closed workings of the children's courts, and profound lessons in resilience, mindfulness, and the beauty of everyday moments—this episode is packed with insight and heart.Lane also opens up about writing their memoir "A Family Maybe Chronicle," how creativity helped process anger, and what they wish they'd known at the start. This story is for anyone seeking a raw, hopeful look at adoption, family, and what it means to truly show up for those you love.🌐 Learn more about Lane and their memoir at: https://laneigoudin.com📖 Grab your copy of "A Family Maybe" on Amazon, Bookshop, or your favorite retailer.#FosterAdoption #AdoptionJourney  #Resilience #Parenting #PodcastClips

If you've ever considered adoption, especially through the foster system, this candid conversation with Lane Igoudin, author and adoptive parent, will inspire and inform you. Lane shares their three-year journey to keep their family together, revealing the unique challenges of navigating the foster system, building a family as an LGBTQ parent, and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with intentional parenting. From the lack of resources for new foster parents, to the closed workings of the children's courts, and profound lessons in resilience, mindfulness, and the beauty of everyday moments—this episode is packed with insight and heart.Lane also opens up about writing their memoir "A Family Maybe Chronicle," how creativity helped process anger, and what they wish they'd known at the start. This story is for anyone seeking a raw, hopeful look at adoption, family, and what it means to truly show up for those you love.🌐 Learn more about Lane and their memoir at: https://laneigoudin.com📖 Grab your copy of "A Family Maybe" on Amazon, Bookshop, or your favorite retailer.#FosterAdoption #AdoptionJourney  #Resilience #Parenting #PodcastClips

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