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Some key tips I learned, that I hold dear, I don’t use my relationships as a business tool, what happens is between me and that person . Everything is not about one person, it’s about both people. Don’t get me wrong, I love my independence, but a relationship is fifty-fifty. I love what is on the inside not just the outside. Nowadays I have noticed not just from personal experiences but what I have seen, the relationship isn’t about how the person looks. It’s about how the person treats you not just in the relationship but outside the relationship. It’s about helping each other, not making the person do all the work. Men have a lot of responsibilities, but also it’s our responsibility to bring the half of the responsibility. I did have a lot of growing up to do as well, but the relationship shouldn’t be based on appearance. I choose to stand up for men, because honestly woman are mostly sometimes the problem. Many complain, want the queen treatment and complain about it online, instead of speaking to their partner about it. You expect one person to do everything, then expect to be treated like a queen. A relationship is a two way street not a one way street. What I learned early on, when my mom got tired of dad, she went and found someone else. Then when she got tired of that person, then she found someone else. She shamed my dad, and never took the accountability. I have always been about supporting my significant other, not just during the good times but the hard times. The relationship isn’t just about making love, it’s about getting through the difficult times, If you can so easily walk out during the difficult times of the relationship, then you were only in the relationship for money or the control. It shouldn’t be about how much the person makes or what control you have. The relationship will have difficult moments. When guilt-shame or hurt the other person for how they look or you’re not getting what you want, Maybe you need to check yourself. You never know what the other person faced at work, or in general. You can give it all you have, and sometimes good things do come to end, but not everything is about yourself. All of us have certain things we need to work on, but to admit you are human, that make mistakes, it’s either better to take accountability and work together, instead of everything being one sided.

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