What If?

WHAT IF? What if I was able to read my own obituary, listen to the eulogy at my funeral and attend my own wake? What will my obituary say? What would the speaker say about me during the eulogy? How would I be remembered? Even more, how do I want to be spend my days? so that at the end of my life I can look back and say " If I had my life to live over, I'd do it all the same". Give some thoughts to how you want to spend the rest of your life and the legacy you'd leave. Some people won't have a lot of money to live behind but even if I could, is that what I want to be remembered for? "To change your life, start immediately, do it flamboyantly. No exceptions, no excuses" (William James). Accept the pain, cheers to the joys, resolve the regrets, then can come the best of benedictions-- "If I have my life to live over, I'd do it all he same (Joan McIntosh)