What if You’re Both Wrong? The Seductive Power of Either/Or

Why is either/or thinking toxic for your relationship? Because it boxes out possibilities. Why is either/or thinking so tempting? Because it simplifies our complicated lives.Today we’re noticing how toxic the unconscious but super seductive question “Either/Or” can be.I’ll take you through 3 reasons your brain loves to default to either/or thinking and how to use 2 words to free your mind from the limitations that either/or thinking can impart.Then I’ll offer you the magic words that will open your mind.And not only will I share with you the far-reaching consequences of this paradigm shift, we’ll practice together so you can hear how shifting the question shifts your mindset.Habit for Your Happily Ever AfterPractice changing sentence structures from either/or to both/and.Date Night DiscussionThis week I invite you to employ the word "because" to change either/or thinking into an invitation for you and your sweetheart to cultivate your happily ever after.Want more?In this episode, I talk about how resistance is where suffering lives.I talk a lot about how changing the words you use when you talk to your partner can change your relationship. Discover the power of hello and how “yes-but” kills connection.Connect to Improve Your Relationship CommunicationVisit the show notes.Buy my book.Listen to my book.Please subscribe to my newsletter here. This unlocks personal invitations from me only available to my subscribers.Follow me on Tik Tok.Follow me on Instagram.Reach me at 970-210-4480