What Makes Someone Slutty? A Swinger Couple Reclaims the S-Word

Slut. It used to be the worst thing you could call someone. On this Wednesday Quickie, swinger lifestyle veterans Adam & Pris grab the S-word by the collar and ask: what actually makes someone slutty — and why are we still letting a word from the 1400s do our thinking for us? In this candid ethical non-monogamy (ENM) conversation, the real-life couple behind Beyond Monogamy digs into slut-shaming, double standards, and why the swinger community doesn't just tolerate sluttiness — it celebrates it. In this episode: Pris gets called a slut in sixth grade — and again as a freshman, for not giving it up The actual Merriam-Webster definition of "slut" and its 1400s origin story Alcohol vs. weed: which one actually lowers your inhibitions? Adam's hotwife kink and consensual "cheating" fetish — and what happens when the fantasy talk ends Pris discovers her "hot husband" dominant side ("You can borrow him. He's coming back.") Is being touchy-feely slutty? Is teasing? The couple debates what counts as slutty behavior The double standard: what do you call a man who acts the same way? "Just a man, baby." Slut-shaming inside the lifestyle — yes, it happens, and it's ridiculous Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your lifestyle, ENM, or kink confessions and we might read them on air! Also streaming on FullSwapRadio: Catch us at fullswapradio.com Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central. Come see us: We'll be at Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027! www.krazykasbh.com | Use code BEYOMONO for your discount. Our sponsors: SDC — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Make a profile and explore: no weirdness, no judgment, just like-minded humans. Sign up at sdc.com with code 38236. Pro DX Health — we test, and they've got the hookup. Code BEYOMONO gets you 15% off. Keywords: swinger podcast, ethical non-monogamy, ENM, open relationship, hotwife, slut-shaming, swinger lifestyle, non-monogamy podcast